No One Loves Me?

Question

well, the title's a bit dramatic. but Never been asked out/crushed on.

I have a lot of friends and I have a very friendly and open personality.

Do boys not like me because I'm ugly?
I'm 14.
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I mean, I know im not gorgeous, but I cant think of another reason why!!!

Do you think this is the reason?? any advice?

please answer honestly.

Answer 1

I remember yu........task task! taking random pics (prob friends) letting people judge them wow! that's not even you! you asked a question sorta like this a while back and that wasn't yur picture geez!

Answer 2

Ha! I guess the answer is really the fact that you are 14. Guys your age will take their time before making any advances. And older guys have to be a bit careful on that area. So as said before be patient.
Now how do you know you have never been crushed on? I had this crush for a girl in elementary school and i don't think she ever found out.
(lovely eyes by the way)

Answer 3

I am literally worried that you would consider yourself ugly!!! Lol. You def. arent so don't worry bout it. I'm a year younger than you (13). Here's my advice since for a time no one would ask me out either.

Dont change who you are for guys to notice you. if you do what you like and you act like yourself the right guy is BOUND to notice you and liek you

Be positive. Don't tell yourself 'No one wants to date me cuz of (insert reason here)" instead think "I am myself. When someone likes me for that I'll know they are the right person." (or something along those lines.. Just be positive about it!!)

Do good things such as opening the door for strangers or giving up your seat on a bus or whatever. When people are sharing and caring, they smile more and are generally more happy. And if you can name any guy (asides from oscar the grouch..lol...) who duzn't like happy people I will be amazed.

Good luck and don't worry. Your prince is out there somewhere! Lol.. Hope i've helped!!!

Answer 4

You're not ugly. I should know, I'm a guy. You shouldn't let things like never been asked out be a obstruction. Maybe you're just too cool for the guys at your school? You're only 14, and clearly this is bugging you. But maybe next time you think that, just think about how cool you are. It makes me feel better.

Oh, and if you're ever down, go chill with your friends. They should make you feel a lot better.

Answer 5

Dear girl,

You are a very pretty young lady. The most important thing is that you have a lot of friends... the romance will come in time. Don't be in such a hurry, a meaningful relationship takes time and young girls get into big time trouble by rushing into romance because they feel left out. Just be yourself and time will take care of the rest.

Answer 6

I think that you are a beautiful young lady. What I really think your problem is that you have no confidence in yourself.The guys can see this in you although you may not think so. You sated that you have a friendly and open personality;does this meen that you talk loud around guys and try too hard for their attention.
Let's try looking in the mirror and sating I am beautiful.And then watch how your whole attitude and look on life changes.

Answer 7

First of all you're not ugly, you have very pretty eyes if I might add. Just because no one asks you out does not mean anything!! Keep in mind you're young and still have a lot ahead of you. You'll probably end up meeting fourty guys who want to date you in the future. Good Luck and don't loose hope!!

Answer 8

No, you are not ugly at all. High school is a very small scale to the real world, you might not find someone in high school, join a club, get a job, meet more people....you will have a better chance to find someone. You should enjoy being single, young and beautiful. Good Luck.

Answer 9

maybe you aren't approachable, do you smile a lot? or do you have an attitude and look down your nose at boys? You aren't ugly so it has to be something else. And if you know like I know you wouldnt be in a rush to date. I mean 14yr old boys are the same when they are 28 so you wouldn't be missing much by waiting a while. Live Life...Grow up Slow

Answer 10

You're only 14!!! Arn't boys still punching girls at that age to show their affection....just wait till your a little older and theyre more mature...they'll be all over you and you'll be wondering why you ever thought that! You're a pretty girl, keep confident, and no matter what happens don't ever let yourself think that way about yourself..ok??!

Oh and that boy above who's also 14 and said your not on the top "bangable" list...THATS HOW IMMATURE GUYS ARE AT YOUR AGE. HES A LOSER. most guys at your age have attitudes like that and they don't change until they mature a little bit, so your better off waiting anyway!

Answer 11

i'm actually shocked that you think physical attributes equal beautiful. NO it just looks good on paper. now the reason you are not gettin ask out is because of the vibes you give off. look at how you titled your topic "No One Loves Me"? if thats what you wanted then thats what you get. we as humans choose our own fate whether we know it or not. our thoughts are very powerful in the outcome of life. if you bestow in your mind that you are "GOD's Gift" and walk with that confident swag all will follow. I bet in school you walk closer to the walls or lockers....STOP. Walk dircetly in the middle with your head up matter fact do that monday and watch what happens. i'm not even goin to tel you...you will know. when you walk down the hallway in school walk directly in the middle with you r head up high. keep a confident look on your face make eye contact with everyone who passes esspecially the fellas.....watch what happens. its small but i bet you you will notice it!!! hit me back on here when you do it.