To all married people, Would you ever consider having an affair on your partner or have you?

Answer 1

I did durning my first marriage. It was the biggest mistake! I learned from it and never did in my second marriage.

Answer 2

I am no longer married. I did however consider it while I was married and couldn't actually do it. I flirted with the idea as I think many married people do. I just never acted on the feeling or the thought.
My ex on the other hand did. I wouldn't put another through those emotions. I have been in a relationship for four years now and the thoughts do come, but the actions haven't followed.

Answer 3

I can't say that I haven't thought of other men, it is only natural. But to actually have an affairs absolutely not. I took my marriage vows very seriously and would not want to put my husband through the pain and turmoil that affairs cause. However, my husband is a different story, he has considered it and has done it. Of course his excuse is I am a man. BS to that. There are plenty of men that have self control to keep it in their pants when they are married.

Answer 4

I guess that depends on the situation. Are you happily married? Are you looking for a way out of your marriage or just some fun on the side? Are you not getting the attention you want or need from your spouse? If not, talk to them and explain that you want/need more. Let him/her know that you are thinking that maybe the grass is greener on the other side...so on and so on....
If you met someone else and truly think you love that person then you need to sit down with your spouse and let them know. It's not right to cheat, we all know that. But if you have simply fallen out of love, then theres not much you can do about that.

Answer 5

23 yrs of wedded bliss and yes had an affair - hubby arrested
for DUI in 1/07 again and I... Affair ended stormily. I know I have to answer God but I don't know if I regret it. Strange situation I was put it in by the arrest.

Answer 6

I considered it after my husband cheated on me, but I knew I wouldn't follow through with it. I was just thinking that way because I had been hurt. In my opinion, if somebody makes you so angry or if the temptation is that great to cheat why not get out of the relationship first? The hurt that cheating causes is not worth it.

Answer 7

I have considered it, as have most married people. But its just not worth the baggage that comes with it. I tell myself that the day I decide to cheat, that's the day I no longer want to be married.

Answer 8

ive always had 2 much respect 4 myself to have an affair. coz if u have 1, then when the marriage ends u wouldnt ever b able tosay, "yeah, but i never cheated on u!!!!" and u would never b able to have that integrity for the rest of yer life, ever. im only human so of course ive had fantasies and such, but never acted on them....EVER. its all about self respect.

Answer 9

I'm not married but i know people who have had affairs and regret it. if you're unhappy in your marraige then discuss it with your partnet. if you cant sort it out ask for a divorce. If you're just not getting satisfied enough then suggest new sex ideas to your partner ;)

Answer 10

No, I would never do it! In my oppinion if you could even think about cheating on someone you dont love them enough to be married to them! I would get a divorce before I cheated.

Answer 11

Married 5 years tommorow...I would never cheat. Know someone who cheated on his wife and he was caught, they are now divorced. Their two kids have to suffer because of his infidelity.