If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
2007-10-26 13:04:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would regret leaving people thinking I was stressed / unhappy with the way things are at the moment. Not that I go on about it continuously (!) but recent weeks would have given friends / family the impression that I was stressed etc. I think everyone knows I love 'em and that I believe in organ donation!
(This question has really made me think about life - thanks)
2007-10-26 13:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Smiler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would regret not writing my will.
Okay, I know this sounds strange, but I wouldn't want some big argument over what I wanted to happen to my belonging or what I wanted in terms of a funeral and all that happy horsesh!t. I would especially regret it if I had kids. I know where I want them to go, but if I didn't have it legally written down, there could be some big fight over it. This actually happened to my cousins after their mother died.
J H, tell your girl how you feel and marry her!
2007-10-26 13:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would regret not marrying my girlfriend Cristal, we worked together for two years -- and she got a better job offer and another state. But I could not move with her because my family needed me. We still call each other on the phone, and I still love her just as much of ever did -- but I regret every day on what I missed out doing
2007-10-26 13:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by J W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'd have no regrets as such, because i only spoke to my mum half an hour ago through yahoo messanger and my last words were "i love you ma", when my children went to bed i said "goodnight kids,love you" and when i go bed,my last words to my partner of 11yrs will be and always "goodnight,love you" i've been to visit my nan and grandad today,and when leaving,i said "love you,take care" and i was talking to my elder sister on yahoo messanger 1hr ago and my last words were "love u 2,night", so the only regret i'd have is not telling my brother and other sister that i love them, i was shocked at reading that,but didnt realise how loving i actually was, so hopefully i'll be missed if i went tonight, but hey,i've told the most important people i love them,so if i did die tonight,at least they know that i love them. xxx
2007-10-26 13:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by stokies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned that lesson when my mother died. If there is something I want to say to someone I say it. I will most likely die with not having done things that I have wanted to do. It is hard to travel the world with no $.
2007-10-26 13:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by inkgddss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to regret. I have told my children and grandchildren how much I love them and I am always there for them. What else is there?
2007-10-27 07:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by resignedtolife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gaz, were I die in the next minute, I would regret nothing I've done or not said.
Jim
2007-10-26 13:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by hotvw1914cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an interesting one but i guess i would want to tell my daughter i loved her,eve tho i tell her anyway and my mum to look after her and that i will be with her always as she is a part of me living on and whatever happens,i will b guiding her through her life from where ever i am it really touched me this question,thanks!
2007-10-26 13:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Sure, I have as many secrets as the next girl, but it's nothing anyone needs to know.
2007-10-26 13:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by redundantredundancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i am only 16 my best friend is 28 and she would be the only one i would want to talk to. bye Delilah I will miss you.
2007-10-26 17:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋