thought id really feel special and have more friends by being successful....im still socially inept...it frustrates me that there are some people who like 'me,' but i keep distance because im afraid theyll find out im socially awkward...
and this person i admire and want to impress doesnt have the personality i wish she had, so theres no way i can connect with her or be friends with her.....
ive made commitments which stress me out, but its too late to back out...
what can i do to get out of my whirlpool....
2007-10-26 12:57:55 · 2 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If the person u want to impress dosn't have the personality u wish she had then that's not the right person for you. and all these commitments?????? take some time off u are in serious need of socializing. U say you are socially awkward well if u don't practice your socializing skills then u wont get any where. People will except u for who you are if they are really ur friends. So get out their and have some fun. Forget about all ur commitments and CHILL! Don't worry about anything for at least a couple hours.
2007-10-26 13:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wirlpool ... thats a good way to put it ,,, Ride it out , it only lasts a life time ,surely you can go that far, ~~~
but to put it another way ,, take a deep breath ,,, every day that goes by is one less on your way to happiness , It will come have faith ,, sometimes when we want something that isn't wright , it's very very difficult to get it to happen ,, THATS GOD FIGHTING US ,, but if your like me, you'll fight back till you get it your way , only to discover ," Dog gone , I should have payed attention !"
Just relax ! , if its ment to be , there'll be no stoping it , you cant mess it up , if the water starts whirling , just keep your head above water ,, the rest will work itself out ,, For Real
2007-10-26 20:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋