My ex left me for another woman, now i amhurt and heartbrocken. I am in a phase where I am so angry @ him and her. I wish he would get back what he did to me.
He played with my emotions, he came back to me for 5 weeks to write me a dear john letter.
I hope he will get his and her as well, because she knew i excisted.
2007-10-26 12:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Some times they do, some times they don't...
The important thing for you is to find a way to be as healthy and happy as you can be so you don't pick someone like this (and then let him back again) in the future.
2007-10-26 12:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! The whole Karmic law. I know your angry right now and things hard when you're feeling the way you are right now. I was in a relationship for a whopping year and a half. I was used the whole time, he wasn't in love; when we finally broke up, eventually the karma came and kicked his butt!! He lost everything...I mean everything! The house, the inherited house, the job, the money. I didn't once think he deserved it, but it was so amazing that I got to witness the karmic law: What goes around comes around! Another example: I worked with a woman who's husband left her for another woman. She was mortified and broken. 3 years later the woman her husband left her for...well, she left him for another woman! He needed therapy. Whenever Ive gotten the bad end of a deal, I've seen karma come around in a few months or take as long as a year. Just know that it will come back to them and they won't be ready for it.
Also, I have read in several books that's its not only what you do that effects karma, it's what you think that can affect it as well.
Ok, your walking down a street. You pass by someone who is not the best looking and you think to yourself..man, they sure are ugly! guess what?! you just sent them bad energy! I tried this: for a week, I sent out good energy to everyone. Instead of thinking "Your ugly", I found a good quality about them and just thought it. At that point you will be sending them good energy. Not only will it help you to overcome what you're going through, but you can also see how much better things become.
Don't think "He's gonna get what is coming to him"! That's not good for you. Just forgive him and try to move on with your life the best that you can.
2007-10-28 12:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Draco27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are going through this type of pain and betrayal by someone you deeply trusted and love. This hurts like hell and I hope you realize that you do not deserve this pain and did not doing anything. You had no control over him playing with your emotions or heart and some people just don't get it or just don't care. It is not a reflection of you but of him. The love you feel for him is real. Of course you feel anger towards both of them it is natural and they in some way without you doing anything will have to pay for the pain and betrayal they caused whether you know it or not, it will happen. Since she knew you existed she is just as much at fault as he is for misleading you the way he did. Believe me when I tell you if you do anything in anger towards them it will only cause them to intentionally cause you more harm and pain and they will laugh that it is karma going back to you when in reality it is their own evilness shining through.
What goes around will come around without you setting out for revenge or hoping it upon them.
Surround yourself with people who you love and care about and who love and care about you. Focus on positive thoughts for you and a future that will include happiness because you deserve it all.
2007-10-26 19:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only answer from scripture. If you read Ecclesiastes, you will see that "what comes around goes around" is not a law of this life. Good things can happen to bad people all their lives, and bad things can happen to good people all their lives.
However, justice *is* done in the *afterlife*. Sins are not paid for in this life. They are paid for in the next.
I advise that you forget about this loser, rather than hope for revenge. Clearly, he is not worth even thinking about. There are other guys. Forget him, and consider yourself lucky that he is gone (before you became even more attached).
Jim, http://www.life-after-harry-potter.com
2007-10-26 21:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do. Been thru the same situation. I feel your pain. It takes awhile, but everything does come back around. If this is any help to you, once a cheater, always a cheater. Sooner or later, one of them will do the same thing they did to you. Hang in there. If you happen to see them, just smile n keep walking. Killing them with kindness always works. Beast of luck to you! :}
2007-10-26 19:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by PJ ~88~ FAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I definitely believe that what goes around comes around.
He will definitely get his and so will she. Because if he did that to you and if she did that to you it is only a matter of time and one of them will slip up again and they will find out how much they hurt you. They are just plain cruel to do something like that and I do not believe that goes unrewarded.
When he finds out what you suffered don't take him back.
He will come back to you in the end but don't do it because if you do he will do it again.
2007-10-26 19:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by cloud 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the only way that would be true is if people suffer consequences by a supernatural being called God when they die, but in your case I do believe once a cheater always a cheater, and once what appears to be a bigger brighter deal comes along he will kick her to the curb or vice versa. ;-)
2007-10-26 19:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, eventually. I see it happen all the time. If he cheated on you, whats to stop him from cheating on her? Also her morals can't be the best either and maybe she'll cheat on him. Maybe he'll find out that grass isn't greener and want you back but you will be with a new and better guy.
2007-10-26 19:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by kerrbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the karma police will get them
Karma is a law of physics. You will receive back what you send out. so be careful what you are sending out.
And remember this..... regarding your X and his new relationship. If someone will cheat with you then they will cheat on you.
so wish them the best you can and leave them to their karma.
2007-10-26 19:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kaybee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I believe in karma, I have seen in play out before my very eyes to someone who called herself my friend.
2007-10-27 11:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by rusalka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋