Okay maybe we have lived a little, done a few things that we regret, but by no means are we damaged goods. I trust myself and reciporate those feelings to others. Unless, you just happen to be my ex-husband. Yeah, we have stayed friends, but I can honestly say, "Never Again!"
If anything those who have been through divorce should understand that itself is a trying experience.
I am not 20 anymore, but I am beautiful.
Guys and Girls do you feel that women in their 30's are just damaged goods?/?/?
Thoughts and Comments Please.......
2007-10-26 12:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by Elainea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all
2007-10-26 12:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by jayo88 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont know where you got the thought that being divorced and in your 30's make's you damaged good's but I am going to strongly disagree .
We might be a tad bitter toward's our ex husband's depending on the stupidity that ended our marriage's , but that just make's them damaged good's not us .
We're stronger , more independant , reliable , trustworthy and honest , we (the majority at least) will speak our mind and be honest about our opinion's on issue's now instead of staying in the shell we were in when we were married.
Most divorced women in their 30's are more aware then single women in their 30's of a lot of issue's. No we're not damaged , we just have our eye's wide open.
2007-10-26 20:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way are we all damaged goods. There may be a few out there but this applies to men as well.
We have all even those in there 20's did things that we regret but that doesn't make us damaged. In fact it should make us smarter.
The people who are damaged goods are the lying, stealing, cheating, heart less people who only think with part of there brains. The part that is all about them and what they want or feel and could care less about who or what they are doing to the people around them.
The world has turned into a bunch of me me me people. Thoughtfulness has went straight out the window. Why there is still alot of good people out there the number of me people is growing at a fast rate.
I am 32 and I am beautiful as well. And those people out there that look at people in there 30's or older as damaged goods need to remember one thing ......YOU TO WILL BE 30 SOMEDAY!!!! And will you consider your self damaged and ugly once you turn it??????
2007-10-26 19:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by rockn75 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Damaged Goods, No damage, yes, we are GOOD! we have more experience, and know what it takes to make a man happy! I have been married and divorced more than once. I left them, none has left me. I have learned from each marriage. Now I have been re-married for 13 years and have my souls mate. I knew more what I needed in a man from past experiences with the ex's. I am not damaged in any way except if they want to call me damaged because I am more educated on relationships, love and commitments, then I would just turn my cheek and look the other way. There is a perfect man for every woman. Sometimes we have to get the thorns before we get to our rose. Best luck in you finding the special someone. Do not ever look at yourself as damaged. Your just self taught on how to live, learn, and love!!!!
2007-10-26 19:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would like to think not...I'm in my early 30s and recently divorced. I know that its not as easy as it was when I was 20 but I would like to think that there are still some guys out there with great taste who would prefer a more mature woman. Keep your chin up because as long as you believe in yourself then things will get better.
2007-10-26 19:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by birth mother 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not by a long shot. I'm still young enough to start over. Life has taught me many listens that I feel have made me the person that I'm today. I'm finally starting to like myself and accept my shortcomings. SO for me being in my 30's is being enlightening.
2007-10-26 19:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sela Ward. Diane Lane. Damaged goods? Sign me up. Diane over Paris Hilton? Thats no contest. Call me Diane.
2007-10-26 19:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are not damaged goods. If you think you are, your thoughts and self esteem will betray you and you will act accordingly and settle for the wrong man.
You are beautiful and worth every dream you have coming true. Now it is up to you and only you to make those dreams happen.
Good luck.
2007-10-26 19:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
HAVE YOU SEEN TYRA BANKS, HALLY BERRY, TONI BRAXTON, DEMI MOORE, SALMA HAYEK ETC..
THOSE GIRLS ARE IN THEIR 30S AND 40s...
YEAH THEY'RE CELEBRITIES...BUT...IT JUST SHOWS THAT WOMEN FROM 30 AND UP ARE VERY CAPABLE OF BEING KNOCKOUTS!
2007-10-26 19:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How ironic, I only find this relates to the men I've met.
2007-10-26 19:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋