I have been dating a bisexual woman for about a year and everything was great until we had a fight about a month ago.
I left the apartment to get some fresh air and went to my favorite alternative club to meet up with some friends. I had just finished downing a couple shots and started to watch the dance revue when the most gorgeous transsexual I have ever seen sat down next to me and started flirting with me.
Soon afterwards, we ended up going back to her place and had some of the most wild fun I've ever had. We've seen each other several times since then and she even told me that she wants to go steady with me but I'm already in the other relationship.
My current girlfriend did mess around with some girls while we were apart but she's willing to make things work with me. So now I don't know what to do and I need some guidance here: do I stay with my bi girlfriend or do I go for the wild transwoman?
2007-10-26 12:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just so everyone's on the same page with this question, I'm a bi-sexual man.
2007-10-26 12:23:41 · update #1
you said your girlfriend is willing to try to make things work out, but the question is: are YOU willing to fix your relationship with her after she messed around (cheated on you?) with other girls?
are you willing to give it a try for your current girlfriend, the one you know better but who cheated on you with other girls or are you ready to risk and try something new with a person you just started to get to know?
it all depends on how much you're ready to risk or to try, ask yourself this
2007-10-26 13:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have replied your guy or woman question - she is jealous and controlling. Neither of those are good traits for a companion to have, and you need to leave every person who treats you that way. Secondly, you have been inclusive of your boyfriend for some years, and your lady buddy would not look to admire the historic previous you and your boyfriend have. additionally, are they attentive to one yet another? Are they the two thoroughly gentle which you're in a polyamourous dating? Are you advantageous that each and every physique is being committed interior of those relationships and no one's wellbeing is being placed in probability - by way of fact the harm that your boyfriend might experience for having to share you is an entire different tale.
2016-10-02 21:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, were you just trying to get back at your bi-girlfriend, since she went out with other girls, by dating another girl? You've admittedly gone out with the t-girlfriend now several times and she seems to be the more faithful one but who knows! Maybe all three of you should get together and work it out. Now wouldn't that be a triangle of another color!
2007-10-27 20:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you could get them together, that would be great, but I'd love to be stuck in the middle of those two. Just take you're time and let things work out.
jk
2007-10-28 06:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their bisexual and transsexual status should be moot points.
What matters is trust, communication, mutual attraction, etc. Don't be so hung up on their sexual orientations.
2007-10-26 12:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you should go with your heart or you'll end up hurting someone even more... though I'm always an advocate of loyalty too. the fact that she is trans or bi doesn't really matter.
2007-10-26 12:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow !!! start stealing the missus clothes and go play with the wild transwoman!!
2007-10-26 12:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
which ever one you care about the most
2007-10-26 17:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋