2007-10-26 11:12:28 · 33 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I really don't think want a girl to encourage you or turn you into one, I think you just want a girl that will help you dress-up like a girl.
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2007-10-29 10:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a girl to encourage you to dress in womens cloths will not turn you into a girl. She could advise you on fashion perhaps if you want to cross dress. If you truly identify as female then you need to transition. Be sure of what you want and be ready for extrems in ups and downs. You need to find a therapist that works with Transgendered people. Be prepared to tell this person about every aspect of you're life. Transsexualism is really a self diagnosed medical condition. However there is a lot more then just telling a therapist you feel like you want to be a woman. After 3 months or more you may be aproved for Hormone Replacement Therapy. For this you will need to see a M.D., after a interview with the Doctor several blood test will be ordered. You may be told to go think about what you want to do. Then you go back and get your scripts and fill them. Depending if you have insurance or not this is very expensive, aproximatly $200.00 a month with out Insurance. You will take a combination of Estrogen and Testosterone Blockers. You better be sure at this point, you will become sterle in about a year. You will most likely loose the ability to get erections and every thing will shrink quite a bit. You will start to develop breast. You will have mood swings. You will have to see the M.D. every 3 - 6 months for check ups. During all this you will have to relearn how to speak, walk, dress, you have to relearn every thing in you're life. You will have to undergo Electrolysis to remove facial hair. You will also need to do Electrolysis on your genital area. The skin will be used for your surgery and you will not want hair growing inside your vagina. Both areas are very painfull and it takes about a year or more to be hair free. At a cost of $50.00 - $100.00 per hour depending on where you live. You will have to live for a minimum of one year in the gender role of your choice, this includes work and everyday life, no going from boy to girl as your mood suits you at the time. This is the real life test. Depending on how you pass you may want to undergo Facial Feminization Surgery. This will cost you around $20,000.00 - $30,000.00. Insurance wont cover it and it will be paid in advance. Then your Therapist will sign a letter approving you for Gender Reassignment Surgery. You will then have to see a second Therapist to aferm the first Therapist and receve a second letter. Now you can find a Doctor to do the surgery. Expect a 12 - 18 month waiting list. Again this will not be covered by Insurance. The cost is any where from $15,000.00 - $30,000.00 depending where you go. Again paid in full in advance. I'll ask you a question now. Do you still want to become a girl? If you do, it will be worth all the pain, both emotinal and physical you will indure, and every dime you will spend, which will be around $75,000.00 - $100.000.00. Whatever you decide good luck.
2007-10-26 13:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Paula Jenel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need outside encouragement? If you do, then perhaps you are not ready to make this "change." Change comes from within. What you look like on the outside is really of little importance, when it comes right down to it. If you "feel" like a woman, and you identify with women, then perhaps you may feel more comfortable in women's clothing- but this outer change is something that you should feel comfortable with on your own, not from encouragement from others. Ask yourself why you think it's important that you look like a girl. Isn't it more important to focus on your inner self? What people see on the outside isn't necessarily always the best reflection of what someone is or feels like on the inside. The cover of a book is just a cover, after all...it's what's written on the pages in between that's more important and more real.
2007-10-26 11:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you have any friends that are girls?maybe they would be more understanding than you think,if not i guess you would have to look around for a support group in your area and see if you could make a good friend that way.
2007-11-03 10:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by sas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be lucky to find a girl who will do that for free mostly this is a professional service
2007-10-31 12:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a Google search for terms like "femdom" and "sissification". You'll find forums, communities, advice, paid services, and lots more than most people would ever want to know about such things.
2007-10-26 11:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Gnu Diddy! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try advertising in a gay or trannie magazine for someone who shares your perversion
You'll not turn into a girl though.
You'll just be an apology for one
2007-10-28 07:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so, do you think that all women who wear trousers/jeans are slowly turning into men..?
maybe you should do a bit of research on gender dysphoria issues. (Totally different to transvetitism, btw).
2007-10-31 23:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a crazy old lady who has always wanted a daughter to dress in pink and to do her hair etc. She'll help you. Where to find her??? Uhhh put an ad on friend finder.com?
2007-10-26 11:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just get a big sign that says looking for a girl to show me how to be one, and hit the streets
2007-10-26 11:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋