It's really hard for me to get someone I like. I don't think I have a problem with my look, I have confidence. I have a good sense of humor, and I'm really nice. But, when it comes to guys over here, I'm totally comfortable with them. I have alot of close guy friends, but I just can't seem to get them to be more than that. I'm not a geek or whatever high schoolers and Jr. Highers use these days. Is it because of my race's genetics? This is me.
http://i21.tinypic.com/2a9yxsi.jpg
http://a603.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/58/l_a49d9e266e1cfa1f6d50b6ebde868baa.jpg
I've never seen a white guy date an asian girl at my school. (except once. but it was an asian guy with a white girl)
2007-10-26 09:54:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
This is a typical white girl in my town.
http://a296.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/117/l_03927ed1352dbd72289eb6ce1c5110bf.jpg
Orrr..
http://a655.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/107/l_5c8268e3a76161bdbc0595b5cdf49896.jpg
(on the left) but I can't really tell. her last name is yang though.
2007-10-26 09:57:20 · update #1
Don't get caught up in the race stuff. I know it's hard in your position, but sometimes it's difficult to tell the difference between your own psychological projection and who is really for/against you. In other words, you may think people are racist, but it may just be you. When you're a minority, you have to learn to be discerning when it comes to the society around you.
It'll become clearer as you get older. It's tough, but it makes you the bigger/stronger/better person in the long run.
2007-10-26 10:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by bbcranks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much. People are people and that's about it. If some white guys have hang-ups about dating people from other races, they aren't worth your time. Just be yourself and you'll find someone who matches you well. I know this answer sounds cheesy, but it's true. It's my opinion that we shouldn't separate people by race. Different cultures should by all means keep their cultural identity if they want, but it should not be used as a means for exclusion.
You'll find a good date, don't worry. Sometimes it requires a bit of patience, but then again, anything in life worth doing generally does.
2007-10-26 17:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Peter K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saw your picture, and I'm sure it has nothing to do with your looks. You are lucky that you can be comfortable around guys- because that probably means that they are comfortable around you, too. Continue to be yourself. You are still very young, so don't feel pressured to be in a committed relationship right now. Enjoy your friends,male and female, and, if you like a certain boy, it's okay to let him know. I don't think it has anything to do with your race. I'm sure there are white girls at your school who are wondering why they don't have boyfriends, too.
2007-10-26 17:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, you are a cute girl. If guys have a problem with your ethnic background then it's their problem. Don't stress over guys. Just be yourself and eventually you will find someone who likes you for the person you are. And that's what they should like you for.
You're still REALLY young. It'll happen soon enough,
2007-10-26 16:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, im also a different race im asian, you see so i know your situation , basiclly it isnt your looks it isnt your personality all it is, is your lack of confidence. even if you think you are the most confident guye happy with who you are in the world try to think you should be happy the way you are keep your head high smile and think, no know you are happy, thats all i can give you plzz take in my advise you WILL feel a difference
2007-10-26 17:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
[quote]But, when it comes to guys over here, I'm totally comfortable with them. I have alot of close guy friends[/quote]
ill go with that. trust me,race doesnt play that much of a difference with guys unless youre in some kinda 1940 throwback klan town.
2007-10-26 17:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by hornychiken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not at all because of your race.
You need to open up more and let them know your interested. Also dress up nice sometimes and make sure they notice. Try to hang out with them on the weekends.This should help.
2007-10-26 16:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I am a muslim girl who goes to an all white private school. yea, sometimes i feel out of place, but then i remember that my culture is what makes me different. Don't worry about it too much.
2007-10-26 16:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by *This is how i disappear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just took all the blame of why your not worth it. you are worth it and you'll find that out as you grow. Whatever you do don't let some snotty little basterd take advantage of you.Stay real to yourself and study so you don't end up like me. good luck.
2007-10-26 17:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by seanomc70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do looks matter that much too you? What city do you live in by the way? You should move to one of the Hawaiian islands there are plenty of people that look alot like you.
2007-10-26 17:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋