and i want to have sex with my boyfriend can i get pregnant since i have never had a period
2007-10-26 09:19:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well i dont think im too young i am 13 and half the girls i go to school with have already lost there virginity at 12 so
2007-10-26 09:29:16 · update #1
Even if you have never menstruated, you CAN get pregnant, so do NOT rely upon this as a method of contraception.
Furthermore, do NOT think for one minute that you'd be protected from STDs. A condom is an absolute MUST at all times until you're in a monogamous ADULT relationship.
And I specify adult because if you had to ask this question, you're clearly still juvenile.
2007-10-26 09:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you have started discharging I wouldn't take a chance because you can be on the onset of your period, meaning you could be getting it in like a few days or weeks and you can still get pregnant. That's kinda of sad that all those girls have already lost their virginity and you just want to do the same. I think you should be proud of being a virgin, even if you are only 13. People should not even THINK about sex until after they are married. You are a decade or so away from getting married, and so, I wouldn't advise sex. By the way, I hope your parents know about this because there are many risk factors to it if without parental consent and if your parents know, WHY ON EARTH ARE THEY LETTING YOU DO THIS? So, the final answer is "NO" and you be thanking all of the answerers here in 10 years when you are happily married and losing your viginity to your husband and not some Other Guy From the Block.
2007-10-26 21:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by α ρℓα¢є ¢αℓℓє∂ мєℓαи¢нσℓу . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow.... And I thought that the kids I go to school with were disgusting. 12 AND 13 YEAR OLDS HAVING SEX? It just blows my mind how immature and irresponsible people are. That is WAY too young. What would happen if you got pregnant or an STD at an age this young? Would you even be able to deal with this kind of responsibility for the rest of your life? Im not trying to preech, but I definetly think you should wait. I am a senior in High School and I still have not had sex. And I wont until I am with someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with. But if you do decide to have sex, dont be stupid. At least use SOME sort of protection. PLEASE. Because you could get pregnant even if you havn't started, because you could ovulate and not know it.
2007-10-26 16:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes you could get pregnant. If you have ovulated (and this can happen for a year before you get your period), you can get pregnant. If you do end up having sex (and 12-13 year olds are way too young) then use a condom. They will also protect you from STDs.
Reember, if you can't handle the responsibility of another human being, you should not being having sex! It doesn't matter how old the person is.
2007-10-26 16:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!
just because other girls do it your age it doesnt mean you have to follow their example. i am in year 11 and 15 years old. i know what its like. less than half of the girls in my class have had sex. i go to an all girls school btw. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost three months and love him with all my heart BUT we are waiting until were both 16 before sex. that doesnt mean we can't do other things. may i reccoment heavy petting, fingering, giving head, rubbing, hand jobs. same effect as sex BUT you don't get called a slut for the rest of your life. if you lose your virginity now you will be called a slut and slag for the rest of your school life. just think if you leave this boyfriend, if he forced you into this or you had sex for any other reason other than that you truly loved one another, you will be scarred for life. when i was 14 ish i was 'friends with benefits' with this boy who was 16. it may be hardly anything but he was the first boy who touched me down there, i didnt want to do it and now i regret it totally because i wasnt ready. as for not using protection HOW STUPID ARE YOU!!!!! if you have sexual desires and feelings then its probable your periods are due to stat soon, especially if you have a white discharge. some people, after sexual stimulation, actually start their periods.
long story short. do NOT have sex and succumb to peer pressure, try heavy petting and if you simply MUST have sex and ruin your life. for Gods sake USE A CONDOM! ant whatever else you can get your hands on as well. they aren't 100% effective so see if you can go double dutch.
if you were unsure of any of the terminology in that answer, do NOT have sex, you cant possibly know the first thing about relationships. but i do strongle reccomend heavy petting. you can get the same feelings as sex, sometimes even better and more intimate, but without the possibility of pregnancy or STI s (sexually transmitted diseases, like chlamydia and AIDs - chlamydia is undetectable...until you get ill or die from it) think about what i said and ask yourself this - do i love him, does he love me and will him and everyone else respect you if you do love your virginity. if the answer is yes then im not stopping you.
me and my bf are 15 and we arent having sex until we are 16.
remember, it's the law
stay safe
freyax
2007-10-26 16:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, why would you be having sex at 13 years old? That is way too young and you are going to mess up your life. If you get pregnant, you're whole life is down the drain completely. And secondly, who cares about the other girls, they will just have a bad reputation in high school. If i could go back I would have kept my virginity. You may get pregnant and at 13, you really shouldn't be having sex.
2007-10-26 16:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you ovulate before you menstruate and no one knows when the first one will occur. It has happened before and it will happen again.
Boy, I know I came from a different era but where are the morals of these girls today? I was still playing with Barbie dolls in the 7th grade and learned about sex when I was in the 8th, when I had my first kiss. Does no one think that sex should include love anymore? You will be sooo sorry in years to come. You may not agree with me now but one day you will know the errors of your ways. Is this guy capable of marrying and supporting you if you get pregnant? Are you ready to spend the rest of your life with this person? Do you not value your body, your education, your life? I know you are too young to understand or even comprehend the answers to these guestions because you my dear have no idea what love and commitment is at your age.
2007-10-26 16:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by ~mobabe~ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are way too young to be having any kind of sexual experiences...I was 12 when
i lost my virginity-I hate the mistake I 've made-IAll my friends then were doin it & in a way I wanted to fit in not to mention the little weird feelings...I never talked to that guy again!!! I'm 21 & REGRET it til this very day!!! Guys are dogs-If you think you are worth it-WAIT!!!
I wish I could take that stupid day where I made that mistake back & waited until I found the guy i'm with now...It would have been so worth it!!! 13 is too young girl-You're worth it=WAIT!!!
2007-10-26 17:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by houston, TX-baby 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sure it is possible. If you are ovulating you can get pregnant. But I have also heard, (this could be a myth), but I have heard that having sex before you get your period can actually prevent you from ever having kids. Again, this could be a myth but I figured I would share. Also, you shouldn't be having unprotected sex even if you can't get pregnant. Did you know more then 60% of men have HPV (genital warts) and they don't even know it becasue they don't show signs? Highly doubt you wanna get genital warts. Not fun, and it's not curable. Plus, if you haven't gotten your period yet I am sure you are to young to be having sex. I lost my virginty at 13 and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I regret it so much. I would wait.
2007-10-26 16:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by daisy2094 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you can get pregnant don't have sex you are too young don't do it cause the other girls are doing it if the other girls jumped off a bridge would you can you don't to take any chances what if you get pregnant are you going to be able to go to school and take care of a baby that will ruin your life wait till your old enough.your wont be able to go any were cause you have to stay home and take care of a baby. wait cause have you though about the disease and other stuff just be careful and it wont kill you to wait. all though other girls are going to get pregnant and they will be stuck were will they go with a baby and some peoples parents won't help take care of the baby when your at school or when you go to collage am not saying having a baby is bad all am saying is wait till your old enough and responsible and you can take care of a baby and when your out off school life will be so much more easy
2007-10-26 16:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋