I am a senior and like this girl alot who is in ninth grade. She is on my swim team and her mom and dad are our coaches. I am friends with her and her two brothers and sisters who are my age. Me and her are good friends. Her parents and I get along very well and so do our parents. Would you let your daughter if she was the girl I like and your were my coach based on this situation be happy with me going out with her?
2007-10-26 09:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You seem to be a nice young man. If I were the parents of this girl, I would allow you to have supervised dates with my daughter, though 9th grade is kinda young. 9th graders are usually 14, you are probably 17. I guess this is ok.... but 14 is too young in my opinion to have a serious boyfriend. OKAY.... the bottom line. You should just stay friends with her..... let her and her family know your intentions but keep it really innocent for the next year at least.
2007-10-26 09:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Uhuru 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure. Maybe. I am a parent of a ninth grader. The fact that her parents are your coaches and friends of your family and they know you well is a positive in your favor. However, I would be concerned about my daughter, a freshman, dating a senior. Three years isn't that big a deal when you are in your 20's, but when she's 14 and you are 17 then it can be a pretty good age gap. So it would really have to be on a case by case basis for me to consider it. Will you be leaving next fall to go away to college? How would the parents feel about their 10th grader dating a college guy? If you think she likes you go ahead and ask her out. But if her parents say no, try not to take it personally. They really are looking out for her best interest and it is more than likely nothing against you personally. I did let my daughter go to homecoming with a senior. They are really good friends and I know they like each other, but I was concerned about it and I considered saying no.
2007-10-26 09:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big difference between 9th grade and senior to a parent. Especially when you're the parent of the 9th grade girl.
2007-10-26 09:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by cygnetmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her...go for it! honestly, if i were parents of a ninth grader, i wouldn't be happy with my daughter going out with a senior, but you sound very sincere and nice so i think you have a chance! good luck!
2007-10-26 11:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the situation. In my college, if a pupil is attempting to alter tiers (say dropping down from an honors classification) or in the event that they % to alter their non-compulsory (in the event that they be certain they % to tale a business enterprise classification fairly of paintings) then they are going to. the only exception is that if there at the instant are not any openings. in spite of the shown fact that, in case you % to alter the schedule so a pupil may be with their acquaintances or they hate their instructors then you definately ought to have an extremely good reason. most of the time that may not take place.
2016-10-02 21:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by ghil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, a senior with a freshman....just based on that i probably wouldn't be thrilled, HOWEVER, if her parents think you're a good kid, then they might be ok with it.
at the next practice, when it's over, ask her out on a date. if she says yes, then go ask your coach say "hey coach, i just asked jamie out to the movies on friday and she wants to go, but i wanted to clear it with you first. so, would that be ok?"
by going to him, this shows dad that you aren't just intersted in groping his 15 year old daughter.
good luck!
2007-10-26 09:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by joey322 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My daughter would not date a senior when she was in 9th grade
2007-10-26 09:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by smars442002 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if your parents know the girl's parents and vice versa you have a much better chance than otherwise....
2007-10-26 11:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it out and find out. ask her then her parents
2007-10-26 09:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by ROB W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you like her that much just go for it!
It's better then never knowing.
2007-10-26 09:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by joeroafan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋