I am 28 & she is 18.
We look of same age & are in love.
She says that she loves me but keeps on asking me my income & tells me to buy a new & bigger home & often says me as HOW WILL SHE CONVINCE HER PARENTS?
In the beginning of relationship i said that i will marry you only if your parents are happy.
But her parents are old aged 68 & 56 yrs resp.
She enjoys me on bed & forgets all the world & says that i love you & i will not marry anyone else & i will myself convince my parents "& all that stuff
But next day she again changes her statements.
If anyone knows GIRLS then tell me how do i tackle her questions??????????
2007-10-26 07:10:30 · 13 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She loves you, a lot! She's just concerned about what her parents will say, and rightly so. If I brought an 18 year old home my parents would be upset and I'm only 23! They do have some sound reasoning, you're still young and will do some growing over the next couple years and change your mind. If I were your gf I'd be concerned too. I don't think that anything but time will be able to change her mind, and ease her concerns. Always act in a mature, respectful manner, and with time I'm sure she'll calm down and things will get better for you. Be patient, and know that it's not going to be a huge issue in the long run, people will get used to your relationship, and in time will respect it. I guess patience and maturity are what are going to keep you two strong. Good luck!
2007-10-26 07:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its hard when girls are younger. You can def find a mature 18 year old but in this case i find it very borderline. No ones parents are going to be thrilled that you are 28 and dating there 18 year old. That should not be the basis of getting married. She should want to know matter what her parents say. I married a man much younger than i and his parents hated me. But love conquers all and i think this is a sticky situation and waiting it out would be your best option.
2007-10-26 08:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by mrshull1105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to depend on what her parents feel to marry her do you? She is immature for sure, she's not ready to get married. I think you guys should take a break or break up for good. Maybe then she'll grow, which I doubt right now. Date people closer to your age, they'll be more independent and probably won't have to convince their parents to like you.
2007-10-27 04:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by naca101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to ask you this, but did you just fall off the hay wagon and hit your head? At 18 this girl knows how to use her assets to her advantage, and at 28, you are either very immature or quite stupid! Wake up young man both of you are getting out of this relationship exactly what you want, only she wants more and I think you may be starting to finally get the idea!
2007-10-26 07:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's many things this could mean, but chances are she really does care for you, like when your in bed she's not thinking of all her problems, and she loves you, but it sounds like maybe she needs to grow up a bit and have faith in you, so what if you don't have a huge house that will put you in debt for the next half of your life. if she does truly love you she'll do her best to support you and if her parents aren't happy about you two when your doing YOUR VERY BEST then they are just being over critical.
Good luck
2007-10-26 07:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Saphire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 06:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by auldridge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were truly in love with you she wouldnt have to convince her parents of anything.
If you were truly in love with her, you'd ask her parents for her hand and treat her right, and not worry about what they think.
2007-10-26 07:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
SHe's either a gold digger, or shes immature. Or both.
2007-10-26 09:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Xx_kiwi_xX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's immature and too young for you.
all she cares about is your money and how good you are in bed.
sorry to break it to you, but break it up with her.
2007-10-26 07:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by chickennoodlesoup 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
she is a gold diger dump her
2007-10-26 17:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋