i was dumped. i've started a new life, and happiest i can be. my ex is still stuck in same place. miserable. i'm feeling kinda guilty that i'm enjoying it.
2007-10-26 06:09:39 · 17 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The reason why you feel guilty about it is because you do hate the fact that your spouse dumped you, but that doesn't mean you wanted a miserable life for them. Yes, sometimes you may get a "kick" out of seeing her miserable, but your true conscious is telling you that you really don't want your ex-spouse to be unhappy neither.
2007-10-26 06:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well, there may have been some of that going on with me, but I'm over it. Now I just feel kinda bad for my ex to be stuck in the same place he was at several years ago - but a lot of it is his own making. I'm just happy that I'm happy.
2007-10-26 06:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex hates his life. I had asked him to come back at one point, but now I'm so glad he didn't.
On the other hand, I don't want him, but I'm happy that he's not happy with anyone else. I know that's wrong and that I should hope the best for him and all that crap, but hey, his misery makes me feel satisfied.
BTW-he left me, but he ABANDONED his son. So I think he's getting less misery than he deserves actually.
And yes, I know I'm just being bitter.
And no, I don't care and I don't think I'll get over it anytime soon.
2007-10-26 06:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dominique P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Our break up was more of a mutual thing, but there was a lot of bitterness and resentment on each side. I used to delight in her misery, but after a while I stopped caring. Try not to enjoy it too much.... cuz that kinda says something about you.
2007-10-26 06:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to get to that point in my life! I can't wait for that day. Don't feel guilty, but don't dwell on things either- just know you are a better person and this situation happened for a reason, just like mine did. Celebrate YOU!
2007-10-26 06:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by snolilly43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dumped my ex , and what i heard from a friend of his, he got
into a accident at his job, he is ok now, he car broke down , he is still broke, no money, he is still the same old miserable person.
2007-10-26 06:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what you're feeling is very normal but...if you can just start wishing that other person well, it is such a great feeling! And besides, it's good to want the best for others.
2007-10-26 07:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight I would enjoy it. Doesn't mean I would throw it up in their face, cause I am not going to drop to that level. Smile and dance a little!
2007-10-26 06:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by danelady7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am....he had me once...took me for granted and now look at him...He tried to come by my mother's place.. like 6 times within the past 9 years....I'm happy now.
2007-10-26 06:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Miss H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I wouldn't "enjoy" the misery I would be mature enough to have moved on...obviously you're not that mature.
2007-10-26 09:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋