because the most employed woman never resepct deeply thier husbands and even they simple say to accept divorce because they has a job?
2007-10-26 06:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Chico and Octavio are brother. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would love to stay home or work part time, what a luxury, but you know 3 kids and all. I deeply respect and love my husband and would never do anything to harm him.
It sounds' like maybe you are basing your opinion on one woman. Or how you feel about working women, which is OK, maybe they are not for you.
2007-10-26 06:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a woman having a job. Why can't she be responsible too? I think this is a silly question. I have worked a full time job since I go out of high school. I also went to college, got my nursing license, and am working a very high up position full time right now while going to RN school at the same time. I do not take any time away from my family to do my studies. I do my homework on my lunch hour or when I am not so busy at work.I also make sure the house is clean and the laundry is done, and there is food to eat. My husband helps too, but I don't ask him too, because It's my job also to keep up the house (in my opinion). We also have two kids, a four year old (ours together) and a 10 yr old (his). And I still have time to do all the husband/wife joys just about every night! I like knowing that I don't have to depend on anyone for anything, and I can buy him all kinds of stuff.
2007-10-26 13:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Servant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that each woman has different needs, some are content with being a housewife, and some need more. It doesn't make either a bad person, or say that one or the other is wrong, they just have different needs. Who are we to judge, or critizie someone elses needs. Secondly, I totally disagree that those who work never truly respect their husbands. I think the level of respect will depend on the bride you pick. period. If you pick a bride who has her priorities straight, you will never even have to question the job's place or the husbands place in her heart. The same goes if you pick a woman whose career is her top priority, who has no time or respect for her husband. You have to accept responsibilty for the mate you choose not the blame the job for you making a bad choice. And really alot of men now days want their wives to work. My husband doesn't care personally either way. But what he does care about is where is he stands, and whether I live up to my promise to honor him either way, and that is at the top of any job or material possession. My marriage table is my relationshiop with GOD first, next my self respect and love for myself(yes bc you can't love someone else if you can't or dont' love yourself), my love for my husband next, our kids, our families, and so forth. The job isn't even on the radar.
2007-10-26 13:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chico, Chico, Chico. There are many woman who work more out of necessity than wanting to do so. My wife runs her own company and so has people under her that she is responsible for. She has only females working at her Art Gallery/Gift Shop and also feels responsible for helping them put food on the table. If a woman is capable and wants to work I see no harm in it at all. Actually it is very good for our economy, their self esteem, family, etc. So to say that women are more open to divorce strictly because they are now more self sufficient is pushing the envelope quite a bit. These ladies do not marry and get a job so they can divorce. Instead many get jobs in order to help get the family a better place in society and to help pay for childrens sporting events, holidays and so forth.
2007-10-26 13:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definetly good for women to have jobs....for intellectual stimulation, financial independence, control over their own lives etc. Whether or not it is good for men that women have jobs depends on the kind of man.. is he a man who needs to dominate and control other people or is he someone who can have a relationship with an equal partner?
2007-10-26 16:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by growing inside 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's usually the other way around.. the husband has no respect for the wife, but she can't leave because she then has no means of support..
Wives should be treated as equals or better by their husbands, and Visa-versa, of course...
2007-10-26 13:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wife doesn't have a job, it is a lot harder to get out of a bad marriage and support herself otherwise. ><
2007-10-26 13:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proper grammar?? I guess not. This makes no sense. What is the matter, you cannot handle women that work and are independent?
2007-10-26 13:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Robin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously a successful woman is a threat to you.
2007-10-26 16:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry you're going through what ever it is that you're going through. But not all women are like this.
2007-10-26 13:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋