next suday it's going to be one year of married .i want to know do my husband love me .everything i do for him but,i feel that my husband wants more from me.he had 5 year old daughter and i had 7 year old son.his daughter misbehave and did't give me any respect my son and my husband they were have a great relationship my husband had a problem with my step dad.everytime when i do thing for my husband i felt that he want more and more when his daughter misbehave he likes to bleam me and my son.my husband like to blem first and leter find down it's not ture he said sorry for a 100000000000 time and make me feel very guilty but,i didn't do anything wrong he loves his daughter very much and love in the wrong way i am thinking of sucide can u please anybody give me advice thank you
2007-10-26 05:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Far too complicated for me, sorry.
2007-10-26 05:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by focus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no wonder your husband doesn't understand you, I'm not sure I can either.
Two things I'd like to comment on that I pulled from your question.
1) Your husband loves his daughter very much "in the wrong way"? If this is the case, report him, tell the child's mother and run for the hills.
2) You are considering suicide? You need to talk to someone and you need to rectify your situation ASAP. No man is worth killing yourself over, nothing is. Not to mention the fact that suicide is THE most selfish act a parent could EVER commit.
2007-10-26 05:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Blossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, killing yourself is going to solve ALL your problems. I hope you note the SARCASM here.
How selfish can you be to think about leaving your child without a mother??
First of all, get on an ANTI-DEPRESSANT so you can think rationally. Obviously you're not, or you wouldn't even consider offing yourself. That's just stupidity talking.
Second, figure out how to tell your husband how you feel, instead of looking for sympathy on Y/A.
Third, if it seems I'm being harsh, it's because YOU NEED A WAKE-UP CALL!!
You're acting like a selfish baby. Divorce him if that's what it takes. Find a way to make yourself happy. Grow up already.
2007-10-26 05:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing you must know is that suicide is not an answer it is only an escape that will leave your son without a mother. From there I would try to speak very honestly with him about your feelings and tell him you want to fix what is broken. If this can not be done, find you happiness without him.
2007-10-26 05:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling hun and fast, when Ur this unhappy and depressed u shouldn't be asking for advice on yahoo, i don't mean to sound unkind but u really have to get some help from a professional and talk to Ur husband....
2007-10-26 05:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call a nurse at the closest Hospital and tell her how you feel right now. Don't worry about no damn man at this point.
2007-10-26 05:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Duffyisagoodboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is worth killing yourself over. I would say go see a counselor and he/she can help you work on yourself and the depression that you apparently are experiencing. Help is available if you seek it.
2007-10-26 05:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Joe W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Nothing is worth suicide. Take a deep breath and re-group and relax.
2007-10-26 05:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I don't understand you either.
2007-10-26 05:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋