Really nasty ?

Question

My grandfather wakes me up every morning but never has any pants on so when I wake up his penis is in my face and I really don't think that's apprioate and he has my brother doing it. Do you think tht's inapporiate to and how should I tell him to stop?

its not a joke but if i tell someone ill have nowhere to live cause i live in his house with my mom

I've tried an alarm clock but I'm a heavy sleeper so I don't hear it.

I've told him to put on pants but he tells me 'it's my head, I dress how I feel'

and my brothers are 9 and 7, so it's just them being kids

Answer 1

ewwwwwwwww dat is inappropiate. tell your mum or let her sleep in your room and see what happens that is nasty and it's not right!

Answer 2

Try out different clocks and worse comes to worse get one with multiple alarms and set them for 15 minute intervals.

It's most certainly inappropriate. Inform him that he may want to dress however he feels but if you were to tell any of your teachers children services would be all over the house. You know he doesn't want that and you enjoy staying there so at least wear a bathrobe or something to cover himself up when he wakes you up.

Answer 3

It's inappropriate and he could get fined for "indecent exposure." You may want to be more assertive. Talk to a counselor or some other adult in the school system - they can get social services to do an assessment of the household, which sounds like is needed desparately!

Answer 4

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Yes it is very inappropriate! You need to tell him to cover yourself up because your a young woman and you should wake up to that. It is disgusting for a grand farther to do and to get your brother doing it makes him sound like he does it on purpose. Why not try setting your alarm to wake you up if you don't have a proper one use your phone. If you don't have one and you tell him to stop and he doesn't and your brother carries on then you must tell someone because it's disrespectful. It may also be discriminating your human rights. Maybe tell a school/college nurse or a tutor teacher or just someone you know well. (A relative, teacher or a nurse.) If that doesn't work maybe try calling child like or buy a lock and fix it to the inside of your door.
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Well in that case you need to tell your mum you feel uncomfortable about it. If you have you dads number then call him and tell him about it. It is very bad if he won't keep himself put away. If your mum doesn't do anything and neither does your dad if you get in touch then call the child line. In UK it's free of a phone box not sure about USA. He should respect you more. As for you little brothers at that age they shouldn't be prancing around practically naked. They should be taught to cover up. You definitely need to do something about it whether it means moving away from your family or not. If you don't feel like ringing child line tell a friends parents and they might let you stay at there house until your family gets the point or might help you sort it out.

Answer 5

Yes, it's wrong for him to do that -- and it's even more scary that he is training your brothers to carry on the habit. Tell someone! And/or tell him that you'd rather oversleep than have him wake you up. There are plenty of kinds of alarm clocks -- find one that works for you.

Answer 6

Hello , Really nasty isn't it :@

All i could suggest is get an alarm clock instead or use your mobile phone etc and say to him nicely and joking that your fed up of seeing his ugly face first thing when you wake up.

Hope this helps . Message me if you want more help :)

ADDITIONAL - TELL YOUR BROS TO LEAVE YOU ALONE --- IF YOU USE YOUR MOBILE THEY ARE LOUD AND THEY DONT STOP UNTIL YOU PICK IT UP SO YOU WILL WAKE UP

Answer 7

thats sick ridiculous ask your mom if she can wake you up.
tell your mom to have a talk with your grandpa and brother. or just try and wake up on your own or face the wall and when he wakes you up tell him to leave the room so you can get up~

Answer 8

of course its wrong.i hope this i a joke if not call the police asap


sorry if i offended you ,i did not mean it to soound like that.do you have such a thing as womans aid.its a place to go if your female and in an abusive relationship.

Answer 9

Uh, you better hope that grandpa and little bro aren't trying to tell you something. Please, tell them to stop! That's TOTALLY Disrespectful, and you may want to consider getting an alarm clock. Hint, Hint!

Answer 10

Well, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, ask him to no longer let you see him naked.

But honestly, you are family. I seriously doubt there is any sexual undertones. There is no reason to be offended or embarressed.