2007-10-26 03:02:09 · 15 answers · asked by sasuki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends who it is, where she's having the conversation and what the conversation is about.
Surely she can talk to relative and friends, evern if it's after midnight.
That's what they are for, should she feel happy or worried.
Now, if she gets back home that late because she was just chatting to a male friend, then, you'd have reason to get worried.
If she also stayed on the phone for hours talking to a male friend, again, yes, you'd probably be right to ask her questions.
Is it out of character? Who is the guy?
Tell her that this made you uncomfortable and talk to her about it.
Good luck.
2007-10-26 03:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible this man is just a co-worker and they've got some project or proposal that needs to be finished before the deadline?
Otherwise, she shouldn't be talking to any other men unless their family. Especially after midnight. That's just sneaky. You need to get to the bottom of this! You have to ask her why she is communicating with this man in the first place. There is something chronically wrong within your relationship. Go see a therapist, work on the relationship, show her you can be an attentive, loving husband and that you can fulfill her 'needs' whatever those are. She should no longer want or need to turn to another man if you are always there for her.
If that doesn't work, let the b**ch go. No one deserves a cheating spouse.
2007-10-26 10:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You brushed some pretty broad strokes here. Well, the last time a man called me after midnight, it was a deputy who had information about my father 5 states away, who had a major heart attack.
Unless it's a medical or police emergency, it can wait till morning.
2007-10-26 10:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the man is her father or brother or other relative, talk to her and let her know it is inappropriate. If she is loyal to you she'll change her behavior in that area, if she insists on continuing the affair, try counseling, if that doesn't help leave her its cheating. Even if it is just talk, its emotional and her heart is becoming attached to someone other than you, so it is cheating
2007-10-26 10:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that man isn't her husband then it doesn't sound like a kewl situation. They need to talk about why she's speaking late at night with other men and what's missing in their relationship that's prompting her to seek contact elsewhere...
2007-10-26 10:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you really didn't provide any detail, I don't know what to think. It's not her brother, is it? :)
If you don't know who it is, ask. If you do and it makes you uncomfortable, as her to not do that. I think (if its not her brother) it's completely inappropriate to talk to ANYONE at that time of day.
2007-10-26 10:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clung her over the head with your club and drag her into the kitchen and holler at her to fix you some pie!
2007-10-26 10:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to hang up or lower her voice 'cause you have to work early the following morning...?
2007-10-26 10:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over and have a talk with him yourself.
2007-10-26 10:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... hang up the phone, lol! or is it a neighbor? drag her back into the house... is it on the computer? unplug it =) good luck! =) I hope she stops =)
2007-10-26 10:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋