I am in a good relationship presently. I just found out the e-mail address of my ex gf (with whome I was not committed but was in a physical relationship) she was not happy when I moved away. Now its been 10 yrs and she too is married.
Shall I send her an E-mail?
2007-10-26 01:35:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if its for a relatioship: no
if its for a friendship: no
if youre curious: no
if you just want to chat: probably not the best idea
2007-10-26 01:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by tiffy8813 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was physical in the beginning it will become physical if you start talking to her. Then she's gonna tempt herself to have an affair, which will probably end her marriage if anyone finds out, any possible kids will get hurt, you'll hurt your current ralationship which obviously you are not completly happy with if you are tempted to e-mail this other person in the first place then I'm gonna sit on my sofa one afternoon to eat cheerios and I'm gonna see your outcome on the Dr. Phyll show.
2007-10-26 08:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO she's married!...i can understand you being curious but it will bring up a past that she has prob long forgotten ... if you were old friends i'd say go for it but if you had a romantic relationship, however casual, its best that you dont have any communication...
if you contact her now she'll think that you still think about her and that will prob freak her :o) shes married now, you're in a good relationship, be happy for her and leave the past in the past :o)
2007-10-26 08:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want to cause a lot of problems! The curiosity is driving you crazy, but the funny thing is, in 10 years time you both have changed, both mentally and physically. She could be real fat etc. but you envision her the way she was back then! Better to put it out of your mind, because it can only lead to bad consequences!
2007-10-26 08:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by maur911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say thats gettin into dangerous territory.Flip the script and think if you current girl was reaching out to an old flame would u like it?I know an email seems harmless but it could trigger something bad.Be strong! lol
2007-10-26 08:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by LADY LUCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i wouldn't you have a good thing going and she's married its the past keep it in the past If you email her it might look like your looking for more ....... plus you said you WERE NOT COMMITTED To her . So dont go looking for problems with your girlfriend - this girl or ur husband.
2007-10-26 08:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Be good to your present girlfriend; do not go behind her back and communicate with your ex.
2007-10-26 08:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 year's is a long time and a great deal can change in that time.
Go on, drop her an email....You may be suprised at the response you get.
2007-10-26 08:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
leave well enough alone.
you know the answer to this, you just want someone to help you justify causing trouble and seeing if the ex will arrange a "covert meeting"
DONT DO IT.
2007-10-26 08:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Noone i 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bad idea. It can only confuse her and potentially create negative consequences for both of you. Leave it alone.
2007-10-26 08:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by NWK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋