i am prengant and 13 help me. i am scared of what my parents will say?

Answer 1

You should tell someone, if not your parents another family member who can help. You have some big choices ahead of you and you will need some support and guidence. Find someone you can trust and is a responsible adult.

Also if you're in Australia than you are under the age of consent so the law will need to be involved. So be careful over if you tell them who the father is or not because he could be in a lot of trouble.

Just make sure you find someone to talk to. Or ring a help line. Good luck.

Answer 2

Ok, it's quite a situation you've got yourself in there. First thing - decide if you want it. I would seriously advise you not to but it depends on how far gone you are. If you're late into the pregnancy, you have no choice but to have it and then decide to give it up for adoption or keep it. You need to tell your parents because one way or another, they'll find out. You're well and truly in this and it's too late to look back now. However, if you are early you may be able to have an abortion. There then will be no need for your parents to find out. Don't think of this as the easy way out though - it comes with alot of emotional scarring. Consider your options if you keep it, give it up or abort it. List the pros and cons - this is your baby, no-one elses. If your parents find out and tell you to abort it, remember they're most likely distressed at the news their 13 year old is pregnant and are trying to look out for you. It's going to be hard from here on but remember that life does go on and there will be a time where you look back on this moment. I would advise you to stop having sex. I doubt you're ready to handle the emotional strain of sex and look where it's got you right now. Good luck lovey.

Answer 3

I can't imagine how hard it must be for you, but you know it has to be done. You have to tell your family. Once this is done, and only then, you can start to think about what you want to do about your situation. Right now I'm guessing you can't think straight about anything except about how you are gonna get past the step of telling them. As someone else has said, just take a deep breath and say it. Sure, your mum and dad will react - they might shout and scream, or cry, or just surprise you and be strong. Whatever there first reaction, it won't be there final one. they will need a bit of time to come to terms with it, but they love you and just wants the best for you. they will help you. You can't handle this alone, whatever happens. One thing I can guarantee - the fear and worry of telling them is FAR worse than actually doing it, whatever there reaction turns out to be, so go do it now. Good luck.

Answer 4

You sound really scared and you must feel very alone right now. My advice to you would be to go straight to your doctors. It is important that you get some medical help and he or she can give you some advice too. This is not the end of your life, there are many options and solutions . You will need to tell your parents, so do you know another adult who you trust and can share this with? They may be able to be with you when you tell your parents and then you wont feel so alone. You will not be able to hide this for very long and taking action now will help you to feel more in control, and will allow you to go to your parents with some information about how you want to move this situation forwards. Be strong, you can deal with this.

Answer 5

first you need to tell someone, maybe an advice line or a health proffessional, I expect you are feeling very frightened and alone, you have options, a termination, having and keeping the baby or addoption, and this is for you to decide, I was in a simular position but older ,everyone said to terminate the pregnancy but I kept her and wouldn,t changeit. obviously you need to tell your parents and they are going to be upset and shocked and it will take some time for them to take it in. have you a sister, auntie or friend who could be with you, if you look on thr web there are loads of dedicated sites to help you. I hope whatever you decide you are happy,it doesn't have to be the end of the world.

Answer 6

i dont want to sound rude or harsh, but you are just 13 years old you are very young and shouldnt even be having sex. if you would have thought of this beforehand you wouldnt be in this situation, sex = pregnancy at any age. but on the other hand im not looking down on you as others are, im 19 myself and could be pregnant and my best friend had a baby at 17. the best thing you can do is speak to a friend or close family member, someone who you know will support you. dont worry about what your parents will say, im sure they will take it badly as you are so young, but they are your parents they love you and will support you with whatever you chose. you also need to speak to the baby's father. as long as you think this over and decide what you want to do with the baby, it will show you are mature about the situation and your parents will help you. dont leave it too long as it will get harder and they will take it worse. good luck with whatever you do i hope it all goes well.

Answer 7

Well first off you shouldn't have had sex in the first place. Second you shouldn't have unprotected sex- not unless the condom broke, you should've been put on the pill. Hunny, don't worry about what your parents say... just tell them -- they probably will get mad but at least you told them instead of waiting and then see doctor bills and see a baby and stuff. Because then when you tell them... they'll take you to the clinic to get options like: abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby.

loves!!

Answer 8

I'm 13 my self you really need to tell your mum i have been pregnant and has an abortion it may sound cruel but i was the best thing in my eyes sit your mum down when your dads put and say mum i now i should of used protection but I'm didn't and i got pregnant she will be mad at first but she will calm down then you should ask her to tell your dad it will all work out OK in the end and I'm not going to say well if your oldenef to have sex your oldenef to face what happens because it has happened now but next time wear a condom

Answer 9

I hope that those who were preaching will shut up. Too late to preach! You are not the first one! Go to your GP first if you are a bit scared of your parents. BUT DO IT NOW ASAP! Don't be scared but act quickly. There are also some people at teenage pregnancy groups who are very experienced in helping to handle your situation.

Answer 10

I am 13 years old as well. You have seen what it is like on the TV programs at school how hard it is to cope with babies. You need a life before getting pregnant. You should of been sensible and used a condom if you want it so badly. If you're old enough to have sex then you're old enough to face the consequences and tell your parents or a family member and than get them to tell your mum. They mite be angry at first but then they will help you through out the pregnancy.