My friend likes my guy friend and shes been telling me to ask him all these questions and following him and all those annoying things and she'd give me all these american eagle and lululemon stuff.. I feel so bad now because the guy thinks im a retard and i'm regretting it a lot now. I've broken up with my "friend" and i'm still trying to find out how to say sorry to my guy friend. How do i do this?
2007-10-25 19:01:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him the truth. Don't bad-mouth your friend--it only makes you look more pathetic trying to pass the blame. Stand up and take responsibility for your own actions--believe me, he'll respect you more for it. I am not sure why you had to "break up" with your friend, but it really shouldn't be over this, unless she did something really bad that you did not mention here. Otherwise, it sounds like you both were just having some silly girly fun.
Tell your guy friend you were just having fun with your friend and maybe things got out of hand. Tell him you're really sorry and you hope you didn't offend him. If he's a decent guy, he'll understand, maybe even see the humor in it. If not, or the extent of things were really bad, allow him his time to be angry, give the sincere apology, and tell him to please contact you when he's ready.
I wish you well with this.
2007-10-25 19:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest doing it honestly and candidly. You screwed up, now take credit for it.
2007-10-26 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Crypt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what happened and that you're sorry.
2007-10-26 03:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by sChNiTzEl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋