Women in my social class (which is determined by things completely out of my control) aren't as intelligent, fit or sophisticated as myself.
It is really difficult to be happy with such a poor selection of women.
I would like to have a relationship with someone fit before I die.
2007-10-25 18:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by serfdom 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I am so sick of reading "don't be shallow"!
I am not shallow. To desire an athletic, attractive woman isn't shallow. It's NORMAL!
I am a fit person.
I have made sacrifices in my life.
2007-10-25 18:52:52 · update #1
Morally unappealing?
You don't know anything about me outside of my likes and dislikes, listed on my profile.
Ask yourself how much virtue matters to desirable women. If it did, I wouldn't have a problem.
2007-10-25 18:57:02 · update #2
keep searching, you'd find someone eventually. You could try dating agencies.
2007-10-25 18:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Charliemoo 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ok, I think this is more of a rant from you than an actual question, but here is my advice. Why not try joining a gym. Or you could join some activity where women are bound to be fit. Maybe try to join a club type atmosphere where your 'social class' would frequent. You could take a college course.
It could be that maybe you are seeing yourself as a little more stylish, sophistocated, fit and intelligent than you really are and are simply attracting women of your 'true' station and nature. Come to think of it, you didn't mention whether any women approach you! Maybe you are giving off a 'get away' vibe. Or maybe your attitude is not attractive to them, so they simply give off the 'get away vibe' to you. In that case, you wouldn't receive good singals from them... which would make them appear less attractive.
Either way, finding people to date is easy once you know what you want. You don't seem to have that yet. Try not to generalize so much and center your attention on A) what do I want in a woman; B) how can I approach them. But first, (and I am not trying to be a smart-aleck here) give some serious thought to the prospect that maybe you are viewing yourself as a bigger deal than you really are. Ask your friends how they view you and tell them to be TOTALLY honest. Maybe call a few of the women who are now your exes and ask them to be very honest, and constructive....
Good Luck!
2007-10-26 02:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever think of you're standards id watch my arrogance because you make it sound like your above and beyond the reach of all women but those who call themselves geniuses and to what effect is that most people who brag brilliance tend to be among the stupidest something for you to think about and study in your sociology class the study of female answers the primitive female answer that is well if you didn't want to come off shallow you must degrade them or pet your ego you must say there are no compatible matches you know how fragile the mind of person can be watch your words or pay the consequence with shame
2007-10-26 01:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your assumptions about women in your social class are true (which I doubt), the logical possibilities are:
1. Date men.
2. Date outside your "social class"
3. Change your attitude and consider the strengths of women you meet instead of the flaws you perceive in them.
4. Die lonely and defensive.
2007-10-26 01:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by dscougar 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I will give you the benefit of the doubt that they really are not as intelligent as you, but...
why do you have to choose from this "selection"?
why does the "bad selection" make you unhappy?
I do find it ironic that you are the complete opposite of conventionally shallow, but still probably just as morally unappealing.
2007-10-26 01:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course you shall have many relationships.After some time a man in your situation thinks hard and if the urge for a relationship is still strong,he dismounts the high horse he has been riding and adjusts his level and sights till his urge is satisfied.Few of us can over ride historical and established facts of life.
2007-10-26 04:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure I fullly understand "completely out of your control". Women are everywhere. You should consider going to places where you would be comfortable. I can't really give you some examples since I'm not sure how sophisticated you presume you are. /: |
2007-10-26 01:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix Souvenir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so, you're in a low socio-economic class - start hanging out where the rich folks hang so instead of feeling like big fish in very mall pond, you'll feel like very little fish in big pond. Might challenge your intellect more...
2007-10-26 02:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rofl!!!! first of all, try not to act like you're so high and mighty :) besides you may find someone that may not be as smart or as good looking as you but has a good heart and personality :)
don't be shallow :)
2007-10-26 01:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by 1080 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Buy a fleshlight.
2007-10-26 01:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋