My wife yells all the time and says the "F" word daily in front of the children, calls me names, HELP????

Answer 1

Toss her *** out then!

Answer 2

Your wife is an stubborn, abrasive personality that probably herself was subjected to emotional abuses (some cleverly disguised as "competitiveness" between siblings or relatives) as a young child. Her headstrong personality will never allow her to concede, apologize or admit her mistakes; things she feels are signs of weakness.

She's quick to anger--and will go out of her way to find something wrong to ***** about. And she goes through mood swings--from pleasant to hellish. How well am I doing so far?

She berates you because in her eyes, you are the weaker spouse: not the man she wants to see you as. She may think you're weak.....but she'll soon learn fast you aren't stupid.

Dam the torpedoes--it's time to bulk up for war. Face facts: your marriage is shot.

Rig a cleverly hidden video camera to capture her hellish anger on tape--showing clearly her abusiveness towards you in front of the children. MAKE SURE THE TAPE DOES NOT SHOW ANY SIGNS OF BEING "SET UP" OR PROVOKED BY YOU--let her rip on her own.

Smoking gun evidence like that is what you should ASAP send to a good divorce lawyer--who then can slap her w/ some legal paperwork.

When the time is right, your lawyer can send a copy of the smoking gun to her attorney--THEN sit back, relax and watch HER squirm and concede for a deal.

No deals--bottom line. You get custody and ask for alimony (yep--you sure can do just that, too).

Answer 3

Go to family court and file a "Protection from harrassment order". Send her a wake up call. Call child protective services and let them explain reality to her. If she acts up like that, you and your kids get out of there without a fight. Be cool, be calm, but let her know in no uncertain terms you will not tolerate such abusive behavior and sure will step up to save your kids from it. It stops today or she will be a very lonely person. Find her professional help. Tell her that you "both" need to get some outside objective help to shore up your marriage and family. Do not pick on her, but on what she is doing. She can feel or think whatever she wants, but she cannot hurt other people when expressing that. Today was the last day you stood there and let your kids be subjected to that horror. She is setting them up for failed lives, failed relationships, and sorrow. Save the kids. Throw your wife a lifeline. Let her know you love her and want to find some solutions to what is making her so angry. Ask her to explain why she is so angry and see if she has any ideas on what would make her a happier person/wife/mom. Get help.

Answer 4

Let her know again that you don't appreciate that communication to you let alone in front of the kids. If she continues to use the wrong communication don't talk to her. It's the same thing anytime someone is speaking one language and you don't speak that language you can't or won't communicate. You have to be mature and serious when you tell her. That's the way it's gotta be. We all train each other what we will and will not accept. As a man you need respect. As a woman, she needs love. Don't ever forget that. Good luck.

Answer 5

Your wife has no right to treat you like that especially in front of the children. She does not deserve you. Some people take life for granted. I can see her regretting her actions soon or later.

Answer 6

your wife has some real deep rooted issues and you as her husband need to set some boundaries. you need to talk to about seeking some help for her issues. its not normal for a wife to talk to her husband and kids like that on the daily. she is crying out for some help. you need to put your foot down as the father of those kids and let her know that her behavior is unacceptable and will no longer be tolerated and that she needs to change or you and the kids will be leaving until she seeks some help. get a back bone my friend. its not about you and her, its about those kids seeing their mother is this messed up light, as being crazy. and the kids need to know that moms behavior is not the norm. save the kids if nothing else. she is messing their childhood up, and your head up. GodBless

Answer 7

sounds as if she has no respect for you or your children. Tell her to clean up her mouth. Its basically call verbal abuse. Tell her if shes not happy to move on with out the kids and find what makes her happy. No one deserves to have to listen to that filthy language. Your kids definitely don't, ask her what does she think shes teaching the kids to do?

Answer 8

Ask her, in private, if she could lay down with using the F word around the kids. If that doesn't work, suggest that maybe you BOTH should go to marriage counseling/anger management.

Good luck. :)

Answer 9

Waste no time.......go to a marriage counselor immediately!!! It may cost you financially...but it's less expensive than court....whether it progresses or the big one...divorce. If you have access.....your Pastor may be able to do the counseling.