2007-10-25 16:28:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know I'm not a husband, I'm a wife, but I think I understand your question. I have expressed it this way, "Which is really worse? The thing you are doing (or not doing), or my simply pointing it out?"
It is sort of a chicken and egg question, isn't it? Is he such a jerk because she is such a "B_ _ _ _!", or is she such a
"B_ _ _ _!" because he is such a jerk?
That was my first marriage in a nutshell. Hallelujah, this time I found a husband who "gets" me. He more often than not anticipates my needs and does things before I even notice they need doing, and doesn't do things that annoy me. He is way too good to me and for me and I am very blessed. Believe it or not, he gives me nothing to nag about!
2007-10-25 16:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by arklatexrat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hubby should leave her @ss. Nagging is a sign of complete and utter arrogance and disrespect. If there is no respect, there is no love. I'm sure she wouldn't put up with it if he criticized everything she does.
That should be reason enough to give up the nagging.
Doing whatever she wants only makes him a puppet.
2007-10-25 16:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know this ? was for husbands but who cares? I think that maybe you should listen to the reason why is she nagging. Then try to change whatever it is you do that makes her nag you. Men don't always listen. Listen and correct the problem.
2007-10-25 16:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know... they just keep giving us reasons, don't they!!
I just stopped doing it. I go about doing what I need to do. He can join if he wants. Otherwise, he is all on his own. I'm not gonna waste my time or my breath.
After I stopped....now HE is the NAG. I've found myself getting annoyed and saying to him "Gosh...WILL YOU JUST STOP NAGGING ME!?!"
lol
2007-10-25 16:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thats still nagging.
2007-10-25 16:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Buy a T-shirt that says I'm her slave. Put it on every time she starts nagging.
2007-10-25 16:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
To stop a wife from nagging you can always do what I did.
I divorced the nagging *&%^# .
2007-10-25 16:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy Frog 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Good question!! If they wouldn't act like one of the kids maybe we wouldn't have to say something 100 times until they answer or do what we are asking. Curious to what the Husbands who answer your question have to say.
Why am I getting thumbs down?
2007-10-25 16:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by KM 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you can't you freaking nag
2007-10-25 16:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe try compromise, and stop blaming everyone else for your problems. as adults, we all cause our own.
2007-10-25 16:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋