How often do you visit the grave of someone that you loved?

Answer 1

3 times a year or so.

Answer 2

Today I was out for a walk, and I passed a cemetary that I have walked by too many times to count. It's huge and really very beautiful. I read some of the tombstones that were close by; the older ones (1700s) were on the far left side while the recent ones were on the right. You can tell at a glance which side is which, as the older ones are surrounded by huge oaks and maples, and the newer ones are very shiny marble or granite. Anyway, as I neared the end, I saw that the 50 or so of the newest graves all had bright new flowers placed in front of them, whereas the older ones had nothing but overgrown grass. This made me think that, even just a couple of years later, people eventually visit the graves of their loved ones less and less frequency. You can't blame people, really, because after a while, they move on, and life gets back into full swing. Many of the people I've had to bury are now in cemetaries that are too far from where I live to visit often, so I never go.

Answer 3

Probably maybe 3 times a year. If you visit it too often it will bring back the sad memories and bring you down. But if it makes you happy when you visit it then you should do it more than 3+


See, the only people that I have ever lost live far away so it is hard to visit it. I have an aunt that is going to pass away, and she is very close to me. Also, when I was little I lost an uncle and just a while ago I read a letter I wrote to him when I was young. It said:

Dear Uncle John,
I love you so much.
I would be sad if you ever passed away.
Please never leave me.

I was sad when I read that and whenever I visit his grave, but it is different for some people. Sometimes when people see there loved ones at the grave, they tear up, but someothers love it because they feel good like they feel they are still with them. Do you understand? I dont quiet. But, I hope I helped.

Answer 4

I go about 2 or 3 times a year. But I think if I am thinking of them whether I am at the grave site or not, they know.

Answer 5

The graves are in a different city than where I live, so whenever I come for a visit, I'll try.

Answer 6

I flow to my grandparents graves each memorial day... i might flow to greater many times yet their graves are approximately 30 miles away and that's a protracted way tochronic to a cemetary. I did love them dearly. My grandma died of a broken heart approximately 2 years after my grandpa. i do no longer think of i've got ever cried at a funeral until my grandma kicked the bucket.... I had a good number of great adolescents memories together with her. God relax their souls.

Answer 7

Not often enough. I think I should feel guilty for not going to my daughters grave alot but I just know she's not there. I dont even feel sad when I go there.

Answer 8

2 times a year...

Answer 9

not too often because I no longer live in that state but only when I go back and visit! <3

Answer 10

I go about 4 times a year.