shes cool niice funny and she has a boyfriend her realtionship wit h this guy is cute but like yeah.... its not a GOD centered realtionship and i dont know how to tell her to stay pure and stuff shes not being trashy or anythign but things are moving way too fast and sooo yeahh... does thsi sound liek jelousy or concern to you guys?
2007-10-25 14:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by whitney b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealousy stop trying to control other people! Worry about yourself!
2007-10-25 14:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a mix of it. The only thing you can do is to support her, but tell her what you think of it in a quiet, secure area. Tell her just as you don't us here, and she'll get the point. Hopefully, she'll slow down, because fast relationships like these often fall apart. Be sensitive in how you tell her! :]
2007-10-25 21:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by disamnea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, almost identical to my situation. YOU are being a good friend. Your friend should stick to her morals. & that's what you're there for, is to help her do that. My friend freaked out when i told i had sex with my boyfriend(i was joking around with her) and she FREAKED. and it was just a joke! & a few months later she meets the jerk of her life, and is VERY trashy now, all the time having sex. All you can do is tell her you don't want her to do anything she would regret, and be there for her. Its her choice if she listens to you. & hopefully she won't turn out anything like my EX-bestfriend. good luck!
2007-10-25 21:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll, i know how you feel cause i have been in the same situation. Try convincing her to start going to Church and tell her to bring her boyfriend along with her!! OR, try telling her how you really feel about this problem she might finallly relize that she hasnt been keeping up w/ her relationship with God and not just her boyfriend.
:D
2007-10-25 21:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyed beautyy. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way it is great for you to be concerned about her.If you are a good friend just tell her to be careful and don't let things go to far and regret it later.Just tell her some guys can take advantage of girls and you wouldn't want it to happen to her as you respect her for who she is.That is a true friend.
2007-10-25 21:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to her about it she will probably just accuse you of being jealous so that's out of the question.If I were you I would have one of your parents make an anonymous phone call to her parents.but then she might know it was you who told and get mad at you.Just do what your heart tells you.
2007-10-25 21:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to control what your friend does....
You can always tell your friend you are concerned, but beyond that, don't offer unsolicited advice. If she asks for your opinion, give it.. otherwise, realize it's not your problem.
take care.
2007-10-25 21:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should push your religious beliefs on her. But if you are concerned, just talk to her.
2007-10-25 21:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋