I just did it and i'm amazed...i never thought i could...after i said my final goodbye...i prepared myself for a sleepless crying night...but instead i wasn't able to cry a single tear..
then, as i lay in bed...while expecting the old pangs of pain to rush in...I instead found myself praying for his happiness...and i felt peace and fell into a peaceful sleep....
when i woke up this morning...i couldn't believe the way i seem to have accepted things ......how was i able to do it?
2007-10-25 14:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Ive done it before it's because that person hurted you alot and you had enough. And then you try to cry and you cant because theres nothing to cry about
2007-10-25 14:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess you devoted too much..end up painless in leaving....believe it or not....you still gain!!! you did not lose at all!!! Is that your real picture? want me to read your future???
You are very beautiful girl, but you seems always carry sadness with you and this is shown clearly on your face...you got to change it, then your future will be even more brighter....
never give people an impression that you can take all the pain and burden....beauty should smile and happy all the time!!! that's the right way to live!!!!
2007-10-26 13:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by harijanti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes a relationship can be so bad that. even though you love the other person, it is a relief to be out of it. You can be hurt/stressed/worried so much that love isn't enough anymore. Perhaps that was the reason? Or maybe you are just being really mature and have it all together! Whatever...best of luck!
2007-10-25 14:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it has happened to me too :)
in my case, there are two reasons: i cried so much in the past that i got tired of it to the point where i was happy to let that person go; and i have that instinct feeling that it really is for the better
but you know, there are still some 'healthy moments' i call them when i start thinking about good times and cry just a bit in order to 'celebrate' them
life is so wonderful :)
Good Luck :)
2007-10-25 15:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by jjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your innovations remains in a variety of ask your self. it could desire to be particularly a while beforehand you recognize your loss. My dogs and terrific chum of 8 years died 2 years in the past, and it wasn't untill 4 months after she died that i somewhat ignored her. It hit me without warning one night whilst i assumed I heard her bark, and it wasn't her. i got here upon myself wishing I had taken care of her extra appropriate, and thinking how she enjoyed me plenty as quickly as I yelled at her for being undesirable and peeing on the carpet. I deserted her for an entire 12 months, as quickly as I had to stay interior the well-being facility, I betrayed her believe, and her love. i'm going to by no skill somewhat forgive myself, yet i've got vowed by no skill to make an identical mistake lower back. besides, it could desire to be a whilst beforehand you recognize how considerable that guy or woman became. and you will sense remorseful approximately once you recognize it somewhat is too overdue...
2016-12-30 06:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im glad you were able to sail through! As some people said ^^, deep inside your subconcious was just glad to let it go. Thats it.
2007-10-25 15:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by rendezvous_rama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps deep down in your subcontious, you knew you were making the right decision for your self and him. thats when you really know you made the right choice, when there is no pain or regret, only contentment and serenity.
2007-10-25 14:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by msmhensley 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. That has never happened to me, although I wish it had on more than one occasion.
Good luck in your life.
2007-10-25 14:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i felt pain for me
coz i was so suffering injustice from that man
2007-10-26 14:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋