I'm not particularly big, just average, but she's not really experienced with sex and even though we've had sex quite a few times, everytime she says it doesn't feel good at all, but it just hurts.
I feel that she IS pretty tight, but I figured that only lasts the first time and it gradually got better.
2007-10-25 13:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
although ur comments have been noted and I'll try to take ur advice, its funny how bias most of you are in presuming that its my fault, that I dont know how get her aroused nor do I know how to foreplay right - while this may be the case, I highly doubt it is.
2007-10-25 15:08:42 · update #1
It sounds llike you need to be doing a lot more than you are doing now. She should be so aroused during the sexual act that her insides loosen up some and it won't be quite as painful as it has been. You need to educate yourself and do what you can to improve things on your side. If you can succeed in getting her aroused, then that's half the battle. And I don't just mean physically. Her mind and heart half to be in it too. Sex is sex for most men. Sex is lovemaking to most women. Try to remember that and it'll surely make a difference. Lots of foreplay usually helps.... kissing, holding, touching, et cetera.
2007-10-25 14:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it became her first time it is common. wait some days then attempt lower back. i do no longer desire to sound like a creep yet that's what you ought to do, you gotta confirm which you do sexually arouse her earlier you stick it in. Like kiss her lots and stuff. Then may be mess around slightly down there like utilising in basic terms one finger so as that she turns into moist on her own. Then finally earlier you insert your penis confirm you're utilising the two ky or spit for lubrication, this might make a international of distinction. If in spite of each little thing of this she's nevertheless hurting, then supply it a ruin and attempt lower back some days later (this might supply her vagina time to heal), then attempt lower back a similar way, it would get slightly much less annoying each time and this works for just about all of lady. If after a pair of months of attempting this methodology that may no longer working in any respect then she ought to truly see a physician as she might have vaginismus (it relatively is whilst a girl's vaginal muscular tissues settlement battling sexual intercourse, or she might have another undiagnose psychological trauma or scientific undertaking. good luck !
2016-10-14 01:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may get better, but some vagina, it doesn't. It depends if you wanna proceed trying again, but you should try some sort of lubrication if it doesn't work. Here comes the oral sex =p If still pain, then buy some sexual lubrication from the stores. Use it a few times, and if matters does not change, consult your doctor =)
2007-10-25 13:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Peace =) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of sex as dancing, not boxing. Your want your partner to be with you, not against you. Take it slow, caress, and let her get relaxed. Foreplay is always good, and well, make sure it goes in smooth, not rough. Try some lubricants, and be easy. You gotta be romantic during sex, so be romantic, and then she might enjoy the sex .
2007-10-25 13:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by RuRu 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women are smaller than others and they can't help it. It has nothing to do with arousal. Sometimes even tearing can happen. She might get used it and she might not. Sometimes it doesn't matter how much a women has sex. That's just life.
2007-10-25 13:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
by not having sex with her.
2007-10-25 13:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you knew what you were doing with her Va-Jay-Jay, she would be quite aroused and would welcome your endowment.
2007-10-25 13:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋