I don't have a lot of friends so...I was thinking of having a baby to get rid of my loneliness.
What's the best time to get pregnant?
2007-10-25 13:47:39 · 39 answers · asked by Britney J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm being serious!
2007-10-25 13:57:30 · update #1
this is quiet clearly one of those questions designed to get a rise out of the mature pregnant women on here , honestly why do you come here for attention its sad and pathetic lets hope they dont give you what your looking for
2007-10-25 13:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by w j 4 · 10⤊ 1⤋
this is not the way to cure ur loneyness at 15 u are still figureing ur own life out let alone try to care for a newborn baby. It is not all fun and game and involves alot of hard work. at 15 u have probably not even finished school.....what about ur future? how will u provide for ur baby? how will u put ur baby through school witho0ut setting up a good future for urself.
Why dont u spend a day with someone that has a newborn baby and see how much hard work it really is. It is definatly a big big step to take and u should not jump into it just to cure lonliness u need lots of love and support and caring people around u to help as well.
Why dont u try getting out and meeting new friends instead....join a sporting group or some social group where u can meet girls ur own age?
2007-10-25 13:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 is far to young to have a baby and being lonely is no reason to have a baby either. They are a lot of hard work and at your age it is something you don't need with the added responsibility. You have so much life to live with being young once you have a baby you can't turn back, you will miss out on doing the things that young people should be doing and as a result you might regret it later in life. Please wait a few years there is plenty of time to think about having children.
2007-10-25 14:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by banditqueen1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun! At a point I do agree with everyone. 15 is to young to have a baby BUT, if you are p/g then keep the baby. IF you do decide to have a baby DO NOT let no one tell you that you were stupid nor tell you that is was a huge mistake okay. I was 18 yrs. old and people were telling me I should give it up and it was a mistake. There is NO child in this world a mistake they are a blessing from God! If, God is ready for you too have a baby then he will bless you but, if not then please use protection or something! okay. And, you being lonely?!. I use too be like that and sometimes I still am. You having a baby will not help that any okay. At least wait till your 18 or so not 15. Look, if u need someone too talk too please e-mail me and we will talk! Ill be your friend! ttyl girl! My e-mail is crystalmckamie@yahoo.com .... later
2007-10-29 10:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please don't! Firstly, if you don't have a lot of friends, how are you planning to get pregnant? With some boy who will take what's being offered and not provide you with the support you will need? The few friends you do have will think you a tart and you will lose those friends too. What will your parents do? Support you or disown you? How will you cope with 2 hourly feeds for the first 6 months? What are your plans in life - travel, career, etc. How will having someone else you are responsible for affect your plans and dreams.
Ask why you don't have many friends. What can you do to change this. Is there a sport or activity you could get involved with, or a volunteer organisation. If you need someone to talk to, try talking to a teacher at school who could help.
Having a baby will make you more lonely, not solve your problems. Please don't do anything rash.
2007-10-25 14:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best time to get pregnant is when you are grown up, out of high school and married. A baby will not make you less lonely, only give you less free time.
Single parenting is a really hard thing to do and is not good for a baby.
Instead, get some friends: take up a hobby. Join a club, take a dance class, do music lessons, take judo/tae-kwon-do/karate. Volunteer at a local rest home. Learn to belly dance. Take a public speaking class. Organize a fund-raiser for a charity of your choice. Learn a foreign language. Do something which makes YOU more interesting to other people and you will find that you're not so lonely.
2007-10-25 14:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooo!!! my friend is 15 and pregnant and it is a hard life. think: do u really wanna get up 5 times in the middle of the night to care for a crying baby? do u never want to be able to do anything or go anywhere? do u wanna be known as a s**t? do u wanna have ur future ruined? do u wanna go to college? do u have enough money to support the baby? actually, i think it is self fish for a girl to get pregnant just to have a baby at 15 years old. think about the baby. it will not have a normal childhood. what about the dad? there are many things to consider when having a baby. plus, you are not mature enough to have a baby at 15 years old. Get a puppy instead!!
2007-10-25 14:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥i'm her♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I have two kids and let me tell you children are not who you want to turn to for companionship. You should never have a child to fix something that is wrong in your life. Whether it be a failed marriage or lack of companionship. If you are lonely try to make friends by getting a job or something if school friends aren't working. Find activities you can do now to occupy your time. Buckle down in school get good grades this makes prospects for college better. If you are not so popular now it won't matter you will be on your way to making yourself a better life. You have to fix the problems you have yourself. Don't bring a baby in the world an expect them to fix it. This will just make you tired and even more alone. Hope you find what you need.
2007-10-25 13:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by timarasmith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really 15, then you MUST BE raving mad, running naked because 15 is defenitly not an age where you can get pregnant and have a baby.....
And having a baby just to get rid of your loneliness is not an option. It takes a lot of other things that teenagers don't expect.
2007-10-25 13:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
15? I was 22 when I had my baby, and thats toooooooo young. Why don't you focus on your school and studying! If you have a baby at 15 you will never ever be lonely again. Crying, sickness, changing diapers, figuring out whats wrong, feeding, working, finding baby sitter,doctor bills,buying clothes for the next 18 yrs. You will stay busy. Let me suggest to you DON'T DO IT! Where is your mother? Go and get her. I want to speak to her about this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 14:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by troop there it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i fell pregnant at15 and wouldn't reccommend that you do just because you are lonely. You need a puppy or something. a baby changes your whole life in ways that you would never expect so just stay in school and don't do this until your older. seriously think of what your parents will say. I understand girls being pregnant young but i really don't think any of them planned to be a mum at 15 or 16 i certainly didn't. butplease just don't do it ok
2007-10-25 14:03:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋