I have applied for tenncare/medicade for my children.MY husband makes a good salary we just can't afford private insurance.I don't think we are going to qualify for it for free.I think we are going to go under a different section that you have to pay for.My olderest son is by my ex and he is throwing a fit because he doesn't want to have to help me pay for our son's medical.He lives with his mom he is 40 years old and has no job and pays no support.My question is he told me that he would go apply for our son knowing that I already have because he says he can get it for free.Do you think that I will get in trouble if he goes and tries to get it because he is to cheap and sorry to pay his part.We have joint custody.What do you think they will do if he goes and tries when I already have it on him.
2007-10-25 12:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by what did you say 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes my husband job provides insurance like I said we can't afford it
2007-10-25 12:27:31 · update #1
First of all, forget your ex and his financial concerns. You do not owe him any favors.
Next you need to consult a lawyer to get the exact answers that you are looking for.
Good luck.
2007-10-25 12:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what? You're remarried. Are you happy?
Lets go under the assumption that you are. Now listen up because I only will type this once.
Point 1: Your ex is a mope. Simply put. That goes for anyone
who lives with their Mom/Dad unless they're caring
for them. I take it he isn't.
Point 2: Your son lives with you. Not the mope. He won't get it
free. They'll ask about you and lets face it. The school
and most everyone else knows he's there too. Plus..
present hub makes $. Good ones too you say.
Point 3: Imagine this. Your ex is a turnip. Ever try and squeeze
any blood from a turnip? Get the point?
Point 4: You and your husband raise the kid, see how the
application goes and pay the fee associated with
it. Thats life. Its love for the kid and face it...it has
to be done. Can't rely on free clinics. If there is such
a thing. Forget the ex. He's a slug. Always will. Never
will change. His mom'll die. He'll get her house. And
then...will drink or drug himself to death.
Point 5: Or...find some broad who'll be stupid enough to
support him out of 'love'. Finally after a child realize
he's a slug, and divorce him...finding a guy whose
understanding and not argue over making the sh*t
head pay for something he doesn't have. Or ever will.
'Cause it doesn't appear mom will loan him anything.
Give it up madam. You've been the route. You know him better than anyone else. And you know you won't be able to get squat from the turnip. Let him rot.
In the meantime. Do the right thing. Raise the kid(s) and go
on with your live's. No one is ever lucky three times around.
2007-10-25 19:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the child lives with you then it's your responsibility to cover him. I wouldn't worry about your ex applying, he's in trouble if he gets caught not you.
Is your ex's first name John by chance? seems we had children by the same man.
2007-10-25 19:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by itsjust me123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt your husbands job provide medical insurance?
If not, maybe YOU should get a job?
2007-10-25 19:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by SteelRain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a scam artist...don't trust him...because you'll end up paying out of pocket no matte what. Good luck
2007-10-25 19:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋