2007-10-25 11:46:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Instead of worrying about what I lose, I focus on my choices and what I can gain by making good decisions. In this way, when something is lost, I know I did my best and there isn't anything to regret. Lack of regret makes the pain of loss a whole lot easier.
2007-10-25 12:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by meitay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd Rather Control the Losses that Aren't Necassary, and Leave the Losing Control To a Higher Force, I am Much Too Weak When it Comes To Losing Myself, For I May Not Find Her Again!
2007-10-25 13:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. But I rather not lose control THAT much. Yes, we all tend to lose control but do we dislike it? Controling what we lose? I did that too. Didn't like it. So, I controled what I lost then I lost control. well....I don't have much of an answer. If I lose control then I won't be who I am. But if I don't lose control then I wouldn't learn what I've done. Controling what you lose is like playing with your own life. I'd dislike that. So I rather lose control.....I think.
This is a wonderful question. I like it a lot. That's the kind of question that I probably needed to question myself.....eh, maybe. At least it made me think around myself and widespread.
2007-10-25 12:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by traceur651 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I hate losing control so I would have to chose to control what I lose. At least that way I get to make a decision and feel as if I had a choice even if it was a limited one.
Pollyanna
2007-10-26 00:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate losing control.
But if you control something too much you will lose it and then you don't control it any longer.
It is a very fine line and seems to change often.
Usually what I lose control of is something that was not really under my control anyway, like people.
But then sometimes I want and let or make others to take control and they don't know what to do so it ends up on me again anyway.
2007-10-25 12:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How perfect. I have just willfully and with forethought lost control over something that I could have controlled until I killed it. Now I suppose I am going to try to lose a few things in a controlled and careful manner.
Thank you for your eerily pertinent question. I like you because no one can figure you out all of the time and only certain people can figure you out when they need to. You're sooo anomalous!!!!
2007-10-25 16:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as im always aimed for perfection, i would prefer that i will be able to control everything.
but if i will come to the point that i lose the power to control stuff, which is so natural and normal for this thing called life being unpredictable, i would rather (if ever) admit my defeat and tried to do my best in whatever situation im in. so its actually the marriage of both ideas.
rather lose control but be able to control what can be done in the end.
2007-10-25 14:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing control is a lot more fun and rewarding. One cannot control what is lost or control something to keep from losing it. The tighter the grip the easier the slip...
2007-10-25 12:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by inkgddss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control what you lose because I have lost alot that has not be under my control in the recent past and I am not wanting it to happen again.
2007-10-25 11:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather not be both for to lose control is a negative thing and to control what you lose is a hard thing to do. How could one control the lose you made? I would opt to have self-control.
Thanks for asking. Have a great day!
2007-10-25 12:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Third P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋