Ok, my parents gave away my dress I got from my girlfriend. I am a boy that does wear girl clothes but I am not gay. I'm really pissed because it was pretty special to me and she spent alot of money on it! My parents said that they'll keep giving away all of the girl clothes until I stop and even than they'll give the clothes to my cousin. So what if I wear girl clothes?! That's the whole reason i'm so popular in school is because I went across the border line and I did what I wanted to do even if I would get riddiculed!
What should I do??!!
2007-10-25 11:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You're parents are only trying to protect you. I bet they discussed this for a long time before they took action.
You're parents probably thought that you might become dependent upon crossdressing. You know some men are addicted to crossdressing and you don't want to be like them.
At this point you need to give your parents some space to calm down. If they see that you can handle life without girls clothes then they will be more inclined to understand where you are coming from. They need to be reassured that you are a normal, healthy guy who enjoys going "across the border" to get a reaction out of others. So go along with them for the moment.
Use this time to open dialog with you parents. Talk to them about everyday things. Talk about sex, and girls, and your personal life. They need to understand you. They need to understand that you are not gay, and you are not addicted to crossdressing.
With a little bit of understanding they will agree with your idea to wear girl clothes again. In any event, when you go to college you will be able to handle greater independence and make your own decisions about what to wear without interference from your parents.
2007-10-27 07:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like wearing girl's clothes, then wear them, go shopping with your girlfriend or by yourself and dress how you want. But remember, as long as you're living at home, you'll have to do what your parents say, but just start thinking of that day when you move out & get your own place, then you can dress-up & wear whatever you want, be patient.
jk
2007-10-28 11:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wear girls clothes, your not gay, you have a girlfriend.
Tell them this tell them that you are secure and that they are not acting like people! They are your parents and are having trouble adjusting to the fact that their son is turning out to be a really cool person that cares what nobody thinks. Tell them that if they want to throw away gifts and stuff tell them to throw away their own.
2007-10-25 18:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey um i think ur parents are uncomfortable of wearing GIRL clothes.....just say its a phase until they can fully understand you wearing dresses
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2007-10-25 18:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by SJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋