Do you think the lack of available good guys is creating more lesbians?

Answer 1

Do you think the lack of good women is creating more jerks?

mm just to note - my statement is as dull as yous ... just wondered if you might appreciate it tho as its got some similarities.

Answer 2

No, I do not think that the lack of good guys is creating lesbians, because there are some Women that they would much rather prefer Women, than Men, I have known a Lesbian, that lives in my neighborhood for a lot of Years, and she says the reason she likes Women than Men, is because they are Lovable compassionate and above all else, they understand when there is something that is bothering the opposite sex, and would leave their Partner alone until they are over of what is bothering them. Can that be true? I do not know, but since she is my Neighbor, I just say Good Morning, or Good Night, to her. But as I have always said to each his own.

Answer 3

Hi there.
Difficult to prove! There might be a connection though, as a lot of women who were in long term relationships go into lesbian ones after breaking up. This would suggest that lesbianism as a rejection of painful hetero experiences definitely occurs.
Oddly enough, loss of attractiveness also leads to lesbianism sometimes, but that is beside the point here.

I am told that there is a lack of good guys around, but it seems to me that it is a self-fulfilling prophecy - when women are younger, they will go out with appalling men for the thrill while putting down the good guys - who then have no incentive to stay good guys.

So I will have to answer your question - no. The breakdown of the old morality and the absence of disincentives from society is allowing all kinds of deviations from the norm to occur, of which lesbianism is but one.
Cheers, Steve.

Answer 4

hell naw, i don't think your theory is valid. if anything, i think what the case is, is females believing this b.s. lie that's been flying around here for some years now, that they can get better "service" from another female because she would know your body better than a man ever could, and their so gentle and this that and the other"....which i think is a lame excuse just to be more comfortable in a life style in which deep down they know they can do much better in, if they were being biologically correct, (yah feel me?!). not to mention all the females and media with those "girls gone wild" attitudes that welcome that "girl on girl action" as something for young women with no good sense, morals, or perception (after being drunk, which can be a lame excuse as well) to aspire to do. if you don't recall anything i just wrote, i want you to know one thing, some people have been exposed to that life and had it forced on them and have a hard time finding their way back to what is simply natural and true. while others, which i believe to be the majority that claim to be lesbian, have given into this lifestyle by their own free will-which means they decided this is something they wanted to experience. there, I've said my piece,...you may hate now
c.c.

Answer 5

lol, no. I think there has always been a shortage of people whom compliment one another, therefor making people feel as though there is a lack of "good men" or "good women" when a lot of us determine good in different ways. I also think that lack of availability of a sex is not a reason for someone to switch gender preference, kinda goes against that whole born with it thing that they talk about......doesn't it? What about the people whom decide to turn into a woman...do you think they understand the shortage of a certain sex, and think they can be a good woman, therefor they decide to switch themselves..................kinda the same wacked out theory....wouldn't ya think....either way, I don't think it works this way.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

I honestly do not believe that people are born gay or lesbian. Why would God create a living being only to destine them to be gay or lesbian, when He destroyed cities in the Bible because of that sexual orientation?

I truly believe that people choose their sexuality. Maybe they feel like what they are looking for is a person the same sex as them. But dont try pinning it on the "I was born this was" excuse. That's a cop out. You choose your lifestyle... That goes from being drug addict, to being gay or lesbian, to selling your body.

Answer 8

No, it is people that make that choice. you just have to keep looking one day you will find the right one, but remember even if you do, no one is perfect, we all have things hidden in are closets, and when a man and a women get together thay are different from one another, different points of views, You cant try to Change anyone, unless they want to be changed, so don't go in a relationship thinking you can. the right one is out there for you, pray on it , keep your eyes open and you will find him not her. there are still good people in the world even Theo the rest are ugly people. Thanks

Answer 9

No!! I do not think that there is a lack of good guys. I think the sisters either prefer to be lesbians at times or to be on top.

Answer 10

There are alot of "good guys" out there. The challenge is recognizing them for the jewels that they are. Some of them are hiding behind some rather rough looking exteriors. Why? Well maybe they have been hurt or are shy. Who knows but we as "good gals" need to do some serious deep looking. They are worth it believe me. Once we find them you will be amazed at how much they can sparkle in our lives. They make wonderful companions, lovers and fathers to your children. I love men and my heart fills with joy when I see some gal connect with a good guy. Magic just flows from them as love blossoms. Sigh.... I have had lots of magic from my "good guy" for the last 30 years.

Sexual orientation is not a "choice". I believe no one has a choice on whether they will be gay or not. We are born the way we are and no one should be discriminated against because of it.

Answer 11

Could be; I decided to take all the good guys on a protest march against the prevailing trend of conformity driven mediocrity and thoughtlessness and found myself alone.