2007-10-25 10:49:23 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Amber 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Understand that when you start to stand up for yourself that he is going to take the attitude that you are the one behaving unreasonably.
2007-10-25 10:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by cavidda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and that's get out as soon as possible as you don't need this in your life. Have you got enough money to leave?, if not open up a bank account in your name only and start saving for the move. When you do move, do it while he is at work and don't let on where you move too. Don't forget to change your address details to those concerned like banks and mobile phone bill etc. You are also going to need someone professional to talk to, so you get all this past crap out of your system and don't be in a hurry to get back into a relationship again and take your time.
2007-10-25 17:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is LEAVE! and never look back! emotionally abusive men/ women are good with words and working their way back in once you have closed the door.
So Id advise you to move forward which will be hard to do. BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT!
IF... you really want out for good.
2007-10-25 17:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by californiabaybe 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
In the end the only way to break up without drama is to kill them. Don't go that far, but always remember that you are the strong person by not letting the abuse continue. Don't let him put you down or make you feel like it's your fault..it's not.
Be strong girl friend!!!
2007-10-25 18:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama_tattoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't have advice but i need some also. my hubby is so verbally abusive. guess that is the same as emotionally. it sucks and he just talked to me like a dog today. i hate him for this. i don't deserve this anymore!!!!
2007-10-25 18:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cut all ties with this person, let go and move as far away from him as possible. let your head rule your hart and show respect for yourself by doing so. i know its hardbut if u escape now it could make you a stronger person in the future
good luck
2007-10-28 11:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by geordie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest advice is DO IT!! I said, "I love you but I will not be treated like a stray dog that wandered in. I'm worth too much to let myself be treated this way!"
2007-10-25 17:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have a safe place to go; share your predicament with family and friends - they will be happy to help. Call a lawyer if you have kids or assets together.
2007-10-25 17:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just do not be there one day when he gets home. If he is abusive, he does not deserve anything more. he does not care about you or respect you and does not deserve your respect.
2007-10-26 00:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want out have the courage to pack your stuff and hit the door. Why linger on and ask poeple that have no clue what is going on?
2007-10-25 17:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by New Nana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋