There is this guy, he's nice. I think. He appears nice. I like him, I guess. Not like that. However, I get the impression he likes me. However, he talks about women. I am gay, and when other guys talk to me, I can see him get really upset in his expression. Like, it changes and I can just tell he gets mad. I feel bad after wards. However, he knows what kind of car i drive, and I think he waits for me after the gym. He was beeping his car and was flashing his lights at me. I hadn o idea who it was, it was dark, but, i am alost positive it was him. He knows my car! I don't know his car. Anyways, he stares at me a lot. and Seems to "watch" me in a way that's like I am checking up on you.
Am I overeacting? i feel crowded. He also lied about his age, and i also caught him in another lie last night when he told me about a club that closed back in the early 70's. He must of been 10 when he went there. So, what's up? Not be rude. Just need to know.
2007-10-25 10:44:24 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle 4 Ty 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I definitely notice something is "off". I can'te tell. he seems nice. But, I get a vibe. I am sure people know what I am tlaking about. sometimes you just know.
2007-10-25 10:49:37 · update #1
Thats really freaky. I would just stay away from him if I were you. If it persists, get a restraining order.
2007-10-25 10:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your hot female friends to find out for you if he's gay or not. If he's not, then I don't know why he might be stalking you, but if he is you need to confront him. However, hopefully he isn't one of those slightly crazy stalkers. If he is, I suggest you sell you car and buy an SUV incase he tries to ram you off the road. My mom made us all sell our cars and trade them for huge SUVs when her stalker started following her home from work.
I wouldn't start panicking over it though. You don't even know for sure if that was his car, it may have just been a drunk driver. He may be secretly gay (and you need your freind to find that out), and slightly jealous, but unless you catch him regularly following you then he's just one of those typical shy jealous guys and nothing to worry about. If he is stalking you, just confront him and ask him to stop. Good Luck :)
2007-10-25 18:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Christian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to confront him in a place, like a bar, and quietly ask him if he's gay. Don't do it in private because if he's confused about his sexuality he could respond by getting violent (most if not all gay bashers are gay themselves).
Good luck. He sounds a bit strange to me, and I think your instincts to watch out are correct. I would be very careful about going anywhere private with him because he might flip out.
2007-10-25 18:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the police not like 911 but just the local police.You dont wanna get hurt.
2007-10-25 17:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by ray_ray040 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not overeacting. Confront him when you see him and talk to him about your feelings.
2007-10-25 17:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Darkskinnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would confront him about it somewhere where if he tried to do anything crazy that you would be able to get some help..... so yeah.. but i think if it is really scaring you that it probably has some truth behind it
2007-10-25 17:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hippo Lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him ... he is a werid person and go with your gut feelings on this one and don't look back ... just move it forward!
2007-10-25 18:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him what's the deal. tell him how he's making you feel and if he likes you he would understand.
2007-10-25 17:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by traceysandy917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋