hey im 18 male and i LOVE music..all kinds but i've always been afraid to dance (like i would mess up) then the other side of me wants to go because it prob will be real fun.......and i'm going to a halloween dance with my gf and i want to have fun...she knows im not big on dancing but she keeps saying ill be good at it. any suggestions on confidence? no matter what im going though cause I WANT TO. thanks
2007-10-25 10:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Simple - ever seen that movie Knocked Up?
When the main guy character is dancing in the club and his friends are watching and they say:
"I think he's doing that dice thing too much"
"I think that's all he's got"
Go with the dice thing. If HE can get Kathrine Heigle, then you should be a straight up PIMP!
Good luck!
2007-10-25 10:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key is just to have fun! No one is going to laugh or anything if you are dancing and enjoying yourself. Everyone there will be dancing. Just be confident, and don't care what anyonw else thinks. I used to have this problem. I would feel weird just standing there not dancing. Then I got up the confidence to dance, and I had a great time. I can't dance, and neither could half the other people at the dance, but we were all having fun, and that's what matters! :) Just be yourself, and have a great time at that dance! :)
2007-10-25 17:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody will be watching what you're doing on the dance floor. Just copy whatever your g/f is doing for moves. Ask her to show you something easy and when you do it together with her, it will be fun.
If you're a quick learner, look at the other guys on the floor and try to see if you can imitate what they're doing. This almost never works, but it's another possibility.
Since this is a Halloween dance party, put on a mask and go out and have fun.
2007-10-25 20:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gorme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think about this for a moment. We humans overdeveloped our brains beyond all reasons. Afraid to dance... and you're not the only one, trust me. Dancing is safe, very safe. There is nothing to be afraid of. Forget about messing up part, because there is no rules that you have to dance like this or like that. Besides, it's halloween, you're supposed to look a little odd.
2007-10-25 23:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make yourself look great. buy a new outfit that compliments your looks and body, get a haircut, do something out of ordinary, put on some expensive cologne and let the compliments roll in. all that bull with inner strength and confidence from within is for people who have time to spend on spirituality so in other words people who are unemployed...there is no better way to get a confidence boost then when other people tell u that u look amazing...once you get that few times you won't care how you look dancing. relax and have fun! that's all that matters!
2007-10-25 17:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by quambewy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be afraid to dance, as long as your having fun that's all that matters. i have been dancing all my life and its the best thing ever. and if you do mess up, don't worry, it wont be the end of your life.
2007-10-25 17:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by :))))))) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just feel the rythem in your mind and see what you can find!
2007-10-25 17:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by bffs789562 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋