Even though he's a recovering alcoholic and cheated and lied to me. He has called 4 times this week begging me for forgiveness and to take him back. I don't think I will since I can't trust him! We divorced 4 years ago. Am I right? wrong?Opinions?
2007-10-25 09:38:53 · 24 answers · asked by cats 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
We don't have children. He has also experienced depression. I will probably not take him back.
2007-10-25 09:57:00 · update #1
You can't go back and undo the past. Forgive him, but whether you take him back or not, only you can answer.
Broken trust is very hard to get back. I hope he doesn't think it is a given just because he is sober.
Him calling 4 times in a week makes it seem like he is really needy and maybe a little unstable.
2007-10-25 09:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by maxmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has really changed his life and has not been drinking for at least a year AND if you have children together I would seriously think about it. For him to call 4 times in a week begging sounds a little immature, maybe a little unstable with his emotions. This is just my opinion on the little info you gave. Good luck!
2007-10-25 09:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by dcdcdcdc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back. Speaking from experience when they lie and cheat it doesn't change and if you take them back it just makes it easier for them to do again because they know they can get you back. If you don't trust him why would you want to get back into a relationship? It sounds to me like you did the right thing and you need to look ahead of you not behind you.
2007-10-25 09:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the most important thing in a relationship?? If you think you have it with your EX husband, give him another chance.... but then ask yourself why you divorced him in the first place.
2007-10-25 09:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by CFranc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him then NO--do not get back with him. He still may have a lot of recovering to do. A lifetime!!
2007-10-25 09:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back. He is a liar and a cheater and may be good for a while but eventually he'll do it again.
2007-10-25 09:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna'sMomma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason! Don't turn back, learn from your mistakes and grow to be better.
2007-10-25 09:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't take him back...Unfortunately there can be someone in your life that you love more than anything but you know they aren't good for you so you have to be strong and walk on by....
2007-10-25 09:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Useless Knowledge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should take him back, and then when he tries to kiss you, Taser that worthless piece of crap right in the mouth. Have a nice day!
2007-10-25 09:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by James! 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You could take it "one day at a time"....let him "conquer" you all over again. Do you love him? Be careful and I wish you all the best!
2007-10-25 09:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋