If so, should the woman give the ring back or keep it?
2007-10-25 09:30:36 · 28 answers · asked by cats 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nope
2007-10-25 09:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, We were together for 9 years with one kid, and the engagement lasted less than 2 months...
I didn't give my ring back, it actually was given to me on Christmas so it is considered a Christmas gift, which you don't have to return. Now, there are a lot of factors in asking if you should give it back or not, personally I don't think I would have given it back no matter what, but I have heard these are some factors...
1. Who's fault was the break up? Urs - maybe give it back; His - Keep it
2. What is the price? Expensive - Maybe give it back; Extremely Expensive - pawn it!
3. What will you do with a ring that has so much meaning to something that is a very bad experience in the end if it didn't work?
2007-10-25 16:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Actually, the weirdo tried to give his ring (he bought a matching set) to me because he thought "I expected him to." I gave him both rings back. I suppose it would not have been inappropriate to keep the ring, but I did not want to be reminded of such an unpleasant time in my life, and I never really liked the ring that much in the first place.
2007-10-25 16:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by god_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have, but I didn't intend it to be a permanent thing, so I kept the ring. It became a permanent break up when he stole and pawned the ring though....
And I kept the promise ring I was given years ago by another guy (the diamond was actually bigger than my engagement ring). I figured I deserved to keep it after all the verbal, mental and physical abuse he put me through.
2007-10-25 16:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can at least get his money back for it! Hello! 3 month's salary!!! Besides, how could a single person walk around with an engagement ring on and not feel that way? Accepting the ring is saying "I will."
2007-10-25 16:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by short 'n sweet 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have broke off a engagement and now i regret it very much but i had just got a divorce and had only known the guy for about 8 or 9 month and i thought i was moving to face but about a month later he got in a fight with a girl and wrecked on his way home and now i regret but every thing happens for a reason
2007-10-25 16:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by ashley l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to give it back but he wouldn't take it. I sold it. We split because he got someone else pregnant so & deserved to keep the ring
2007-10-25 16:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Worm is back 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the girl should give the ring back and tell him to wait
2007-10-25 16:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by shawn e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it back, why would want to keep a ring that would remind u of what u did.
2007-10-25 16:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by WOW 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no I ever been engaged
and I think its not right at all to keep the ring if that happends in a relationship because its not right to keep something thats not yours anymore.
2007-10-25 16:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have.
Any decent woman gives the ring back. Only a tramp keeps it.
If you keep it, he's lucky that it only cost him that much to get rid of you.
2007-10-25 16:43:49 · answer #11 · answered by Richard T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋