Ever since I strarted school this year, things are diffrent and I feel very empty, like something is missing... but not much has changed, really.Can anyone help me?
2007-10-25 08:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by Coke 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well I feel lonely...and like a real nobody. I don't know what I do well anymore or what I like to do, It's a very strange feeling.
2007-10-25 08:41:07 · update #1
Thanks everybody, loved all of th answers! i´ll try them all :D
2007-10-26 09:22:34 · update #2
First do you have a purpose and goal in life. if not, plz get one! By working towards the goal that you've set for urself u will feel less empty emotionally.
How are you doing socially? r u isolated from ur peers or do you have meaningless, shallow, superficial relation with others or do u have really good friends?
if u feel there's nothing exciting in ur life...go out there and LIVE!
remember Fill ur life with experiences, not excuses.
2007-10-25 08:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how old you are. If you are in your teens you could be experiencing variations in hormone levels. This could lead to feelings of isolation or loneliness or depression. If this is the case, the body usually rights itself over time. If after a few months this feeling does not lesson you should talk to a doctor or counselor. If you are older, you may be experiencing the need to do some soul searching. Try new things. Experiment with different hobbies. Not only will this fill up your time, but you'll make new friends with similar interests. Finally, your emptiness could be a desire to have some sort of spiritual or religious meaning in your life. If you were not raised with a religious background, seek out a Dr. of Theology on campus and request a meeting. Go down to a local church and make an appointment to talk to a priest or pastor or discuss this feeling with your own spiritual leader, if you have one. Good luck.
2007-10-25 16:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel empty, be reassured that we all feel like this sometimes. You don't say how old you are but maybe you've just outgrown some of the things you used to be into or enjoyed? and you need a new focus or something to look forward to?
Think about the things that you get passionate about now and why? what do you find interesting? Maybe you just need to try something new. Hang out with friends that make you laugh and you enjoy being with. I think it helps if you set small goals and then when you complete them you'll feel great. (Exercise is also great for motivation and clearing your head).If you feel a bit down and not just empty make sure you don't isolate yourself, it will help to confide in a parent/sister or close friend, you might be surprised they might even feel the same and you can help each other!
Remember you're young and have lots to look foward to, enjoy every moment now. You'll do just fine, good luck! :)
2007-10-25 16:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time for a life style change, maybe your life needs another direction, do you go to church or do volunteer work, God maybe trying to tell you something, Not everyone goes in the same direction and everybody has to make a change sometime, maybe your time is now.
2007-10-26 14:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to be more specific about your feelings if you want any real help, otherwise we can only shoot in the dark with generalizations hoping one applies to you.
2007-10-25 15:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cogito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's human nature, a lot of people feel this way atleast some point in their lives.
2007-10-25 15:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by valley girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
empty....sorry i cant give you an answer but i hope it works out for you really i do
2007-10-25 15:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by forsaken49 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋