can someone help?

Question

i got pregnant at 21 and lost it a 21/2 months. I am 41 and been trying to get pregnant. when i miscarried the doctor said i had an inbalanced hormon and it would be hard. my last period was in august 2 wks after period was due brought a riteaid test it was neg. had lite bleeding for 1/2 a day this month still no period but been having light cramps and again 1/2 lite bleeding but no pad was needed. i am very tired moody back ache and my muscles in my stomach feel strained like if i pulled them. felt sick slightly but got past it nipples were a little itchy and slighty sore but ok now. ate some weird food but every so often feels like my period is coming. my breast are not swollen i feel more blotted than anything. my b/f thinks i am but i just dont want to get my hopes up i have wanted it for so long. i know i have to take another test and also have to see a doctor but was just wondering if this has happened to anyone else.

Answer 1

Well, I sure hope you are, but I honestly don't know. You have all the right symptoms. You may have to just bite the bullet and go and get a test. That should put some of your worries to rest. Maybe someone else on here can give you some encouraging news.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you :~)

Answer 2

I was told at age 24 that I would have a hard time getting pregnant because of my hormones. I had been trying for a year with no luck. I decided not to take any fertility drugs. Now, I have three daughters. In fact the older I get the easier it seems, I get pregnant. Since 2005, I've had the last two kids and a miscarriage. You most definately could be pregnant. I would get a test. Good luck! :)

Answer 3

Our children are gifts from God. You are 41, unmarried and trying to get pregnant. Why not marry the father and ask God to open your womb and give you a child?

Answer 4

I hope it is too! But honestly, it's either that or premature menopausal symptoms. I clare I hope it isn't though