Any good advice on how to put this behind me, or just some short encouragement?
2007-10-25 06:21:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would take a break from relationships for like 3 or 4 months and give yourself time to heal from the emotional wounds that the divorce inflicted on you. After a few months when you feel the emtional pain has subsided, you should probably try seeking out another person to have a relationship with, a better person who will respect you and treat you right. After you've found that special someone, you'll definitely forget all about the pain the other person caused you in your previous marraige.
I wish you the best of luck in healing from the emotional pain and then finding a new good person!
2007-10-25 06:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say how you felt about it. But my experience has been to not jump back into another relationship. Examine your own attitudes and thoughts, Was there something that you could change that contributed to the problem. Understand that you will bealone a lot now so just understand it is a trade off. Understand that any relationship brings some frustration and compromise. Seek friends and not lovers for a while. A lot of feelings will change so dont think it will always be this way. Good Luck Grampa B
2007-10-25 06:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONGRADULATIONS !!!! You should concentrate on yourself now. Also your children if you have any. First of all take some time off. Get to doing stuff that interests you like golf, swimming, or any kind of sport you like. You should get involved in church groups, car clubs, or anything you really like to do. Occupy your time by going out and doing stuff you don't have to be with a woman all the time to make you happy. You deserve better than that. You will be just fine on your own. Have a great day !!!! GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-10-25 06:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joe A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, take time to reflect, and realize those things that led to your divorce and no matter who was at fault, be a better person, and you are now given another chance to make your life happy. It is up to you now, as to how you proceed from here. The best to you.
2007-10-25 06:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get off your b.u.t.t., go for a walk, go have coffee, go to the gym, go somewhere where you can take your mind off of things. Keep yourself busy and use your divorce as a learning experience so that your next relationship works out.
2007-10-25 06:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! I wish it were me. I have been divorcing for over two years already and the very second it is final I am throwing rager of a party.
2007-10-25 06:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need an ego boost. Go out to a club or bar and get hit on. You don't necessarily need to go out with anyone but it feels great to know that you still "have it". Throw a party and never ever get married again!!!
2007-10-25 06:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep your mind on work then eventually the pain will go away it will be about a year then you should be ok i am speaking from expierence from my first wife now i am very happy with my second wife been together going on 13 years every thing well be allright
2007-10-25 06:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Dog Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Try to avoid making the same mistake next time around.
2007-10-25 06:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep smiling--esp. if this divorce was a good thing--and the right one will come along.. :0)
2007-10-25 06:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by faireegurl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋