What is considered cheating to you? Is it when there is actual physical contact or not? Do you consider buying subscriptions to internet porn/webcam and chat sites cheating? Just curious.
2007-10-25 02:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ultimately CHEATING is doing something behind your significant others back, which would cause him or her to feel betrayed. That does NOT have to be a physical act. It can be as simple as chatting with someone online or s flirtatious relationship at work.
However, if the two of you keep everything in the open, NOTHING can be considered cheating. For example: I like to let my wife sleep with other people and she does the same for me. This is not considered cheating because we know all about it and approve of it! We do not keep secrets and we do not betray each others' trust.
2007-10-25 03:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by tempest_twilight2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally consider cheating is when you go out with someone and get physical with them whether it be a kiss or further then that. When you buy subscriptions and watch porn that is a fetish or fantasy. You should share it with your significant other to keep your relationship alive. If they don't want to open their mind to it. Then I don't know what to tell you.
2007-10-25 02:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by stefanie2889 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I am pretty strict on this. any form of sexual gratification from someone else to me is cheating. so porn, a big no no! If he has a fetish...I'll do it for him and he knows it! so he doesn't need porn. I don't mind at all if my husband has female friends, but if he starts to get too close to her (talking to her about things he feels and doesn't share it with me) then that is emotional cheating. I guess to me it is like it says in the bible, somewhere? If you have already committed the act in your heart you have already sinned. So dont even think about doing it with another girl or i'll chop your d*ck off! he he :) J/K
2007-10-25 03:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating (che'ting), adj. that cheats; fraudulent; swindling; deceitful.
There are way 2 many ways that people look at the word cheating so to clarify, this is the actual definition to the word!!
So basically cheating is whatever a person wants to make the word out to be!!
No I'm not a cheater but geez people really dwell on this!!
People who look at porn as cheating in my opinion are not secure in their relationship, its not real they can't touch the person so whats the big deal.
2007-10-25 03:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't really matter what we think.
Some couples may use internet porn or other forms of porn to enhance their sex lives.
But if it would bother you if your spouse did this with or without your knowledge then you should ask your spouse not to do this.
2007-10-25 02:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by countryguyhfc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol---just how in the world would purchasing internet porn and webcams cheating...just how could he stick is dick somewhere it doesn't belong while viewing internet or cam???? hmmm....lol cheating is when a man sticks his dick in a hole that does not belong to his spouse or significant other
2007-10-25 03:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like doc Phil'l answer....doing or hiding anything from your significant other....and knowing they would disapprove....
personally, i don't care if my husband looks at porn, but he doesn't hide it from me either. but I do believe in emotional cheating...and you don't have to touch for that.
2007-10-25 02:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are different forms of cheating some more forgivable then the other...Example your lady is flirting...Who cares everyone flirts sometimes....
Your lady is on her knees giving some guy name Bill a little monica lewinsky you would be pissed!...
2007-10-25 02:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When either the heart or the vagina is involved.
2007-10-25 02:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebel if you hide it then you know it's wrong. wasn't that easy, Mrs.
2007-10-25 02:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋