your boyfriend when you find out from friend he's been cheating?
.. i really need all your help, you guys!
2007-10-25 02:11:42 · 23 answers · asked by the drizzle is a chick! 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Get right in his face....! Dont be nicey nice!!
2007-10-25 02:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Make sure you have all the details you need to question him about the alleged cheating. Don't just start attacking, it'll just put him on the defensive. Be upfront, but not overly emotional, I know easier said than done. If you're calm and not screaming, he'll be more likely to fess up.
Also, is there any way for you to contact the girl? If you can ask her nicely what went on, it'll be better because you'll hear it from one of the two people who were actually involved. Just don't come at her all angry. Did she even know he had a girl friend? If not, she may be just as pi$$ed as you are. If she is, the 2 of you can always confront him together.
Good luck.
2007-10-25 09:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I would wait and make sure you have some proof. Don't be mean, but don't take no sh*t!!! Unless he is cheating and acts like a jerk to you. Don't let him push you around about it. If he did/is cheating and you want to forgive and try to move on together, certain "rules" will have to be put in place. And he would have to understand that if he wants to stay with you that you will be questioning (maybe not to him, but in your own mind) his every movement. If you can't get proof, (within a reasonable amount of time) I'd still talk to him about it...Nothing is worse than not knowing for sure. A cheating partner would take a while to get over, but it is possible! If he is worth it and you are willing. Everyone makes mistakes. Just remember, You did nothing wrong for him to make a decision like this. (i hate the, "your never home, etc. etc. etc. excuses!!!)
2007-10-25 10:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is find some solid evidence of it so you can confront him with actual evidence and not just hearsay.
You don't want it to be a situation where the friend was not being completely honest with you and then find out that he wasn't cheating at all, so know for yourself before accusing anyone of anything.
2007-10-25 09:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Wanda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is the friend who told you trustworthy? Could this be a misunderstanding or do you believe your friend? If the answer is yes you believe your friend, then be honest and straightforward with your boyfriend, and tell him that someone came and told you that he was seen with another woman. I'd ask him what does he want from you? See what he says first. You won't know what to do or how to answer until you talk to him. But you can't stay in this emotional pain, so talk to him as soon as you can! Good luck!
2007-10-25 09:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Enchantress38 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him,or if you think he will lie then follow him and find out the truth. Hope that your friend is honest and not just trying to break you up. I had so called friends that did that.
Hun I really wish that I could give you an answer but you have to do what you feel is right.
2007-10-25 13:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by ktychaos13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would first have all the proof that you need before confronting him. Accusations from hear say can be easily denied. If you truly believe that he has been cheating I would have all your ducks in a row and just lay it on the line...asap!
2007-10-25 09:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha shake! aquateen is fun lol
But if you tell him hes been cheating theres about a 95% chance hes gonna say no rather its true or not so you need to catch him in a lie of some sort about where hes been or something like that. Or if you trust your friend just end it.
2007-10-25 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by first_1exit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 find out for yourself its true
2 what are you going to do if its true
if nothing dont confront hes not gonna changed the less you know the better you will be
sorry ....been there myself
2007-10-25 09:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him point blank. But be ready for his answer. Think about what you want to say and how you're going to say it. Do you have proof? Because you can't accuse some one with out it.
2007-10-25 09:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by just me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, odds are he will deny it and say your friend is lying. So, you have to decide what you are going to do with having a cheating boyfriend.
2007-10-25 09:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋