still have pictures of an ex lover?
does that bother you?
do you have pics of ex lovers also?
does that cause tension?
do you/they look at them often?
just curious...
(this isn't about me...i'm just bored and thinking of Q)
2007-10-25 02:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by joey322 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has a huge box of old pictures - of family, friends, and yes - some of his ex girlfriends. I only know this because I've snooped in it more then once. I honestly don't even think he realizes it's still in the back of his closet.
HOWEVER - I wish he would toss them. If I ever caught him looking through them and then putting them right back, I would say something.
2007-10-25 02:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Maeve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she has kept pictures of ex-lovers, but if she did, that's OK. Nothing wrong with keeping past memories. If she had a picture of her past boyfriend in a frame on the bedside table then I'd have to say something, but otherwise it's no problem.
I have some photos from the past and she knows it. I was a photographer from early on in High school with yearbook and school newspaper. This continued into college. I have a large box with all photos thrown in, but none of them are nudes or anything, just candids of hundreds of people. I get calls periodically from the school reunion group who asks me for photos, so it's nice to have them on hand.
2007-10-25 09:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by kadisciples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A picture of my first husband (he passed away) is even standing on our fireplace and of course I still have albums with lots of pictures.I cherish them but don´t look at them very often.
My husband sure has pictures of his ex girlfriends too.He doesn´t look at them and if ,it wouldn´t cause any tension.
Ex girlfriends,lovers and spouses are part of our past.We should keep this memories alive.It doesn´t hurt anyone.
2007-10-25 09:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by tampagirl 2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my spouse does not have any pics of his ex nothing that i know of, but it would not bother me depending on the circumstances, but if he was looking at them, and thinking about her i would rip them myself.
2007-10-25 09:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does but many times over the years he's offered to throw them out. I'm fine with him keeping them because they were a part of his life at one point but he doesn't have feelings for them anymore. No he doesn't look at them often.
2007-10-25 09:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my husband doesn't have any pictures of his ex because if he did I would probably burn them all. I think it is rude if someone is married to have pictures of an ex lying around!!!
2007-10-25 09:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by julie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has one 5x7 picture of him and his first wife on their wedding day. It is stuck in a stack of pictures, not on the wall or anything. He told me i could throw it away if I wanted but it seems wrong. That was a part of his life.
2007-10-25 09:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an album of old girlfriends....and other people from his college days.
I don't care about them.....it's what's going on today that matters.
He had a life before me & that life made him the man I love today.
2007-10-25 09:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend burned his ex's pictures lol i dont know why but i still have my ex's pictures but i keep them put away so he never sees them so it doesnt bother him
2007-10-25 09:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby does not. I have one picture of my ex boyfriend and I from my senior prom. That's it.
2007-10-25 09:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋