here's the thing...
I've come to a conclusion that i may very well be in love....
with my best friend. I'm an 19 yr old girl and havent found anyone like her who makes me laugh, and cry the way she does... when i'm with her i wish i was the guy she's nevere had, and i just want to spend the rest of my life with her.
i've never met anyone like her...she's smart...capable(sp) to have alot of friends but would rather spend time with me...
I know im not gay, cause someday i want someone to hold me in his arms and i want a family and kids...and i very much like what men have :)
what the hell do i do?
ask me if you want me to explain our daily relationship... you'll know why i'm so confused about myself
2007-10-25 01:49:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be the best friend she's never had. :)
Its ok to be in love with your friend, I think a lot of girls have felt that sort of love for their friends, me and my friend click very well and make eachother laugh and no eachother more then anything, but shes straight and with her boyfriend and I am with my girlfriend, dont confuse your love with sex, if you want to sleep with her and all that, then maybe you should re-check on your sexuality but if you just feel pure love and admiration for who she is then its just a very good friendship you guys have.:)
2007-10-25 02:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, you're 19. And you've never had a contact with anyone else that felt so good.
The point is, you're 19. This is probably the first person with whom you have had such a close emotional tie who is not a member of your immediate family. You're very young, and this may be a new thing to you. And I remember 19 so well, everything seemed so very intense, especially friendships.
So what do you do? Just enjoy the friendship while you have it, that's what I think you should do. Friendships do change over time, and it may be that your friend will start wanting to spend time with other people, and you will too.
If in a few years it seems that you actually like women in a sexual way, deal with that then.
2007-10-25 02:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your best friend and best friends love each other that is why they are best friends. Don't confuse this love with anything else unless you are just discovering that you are gay. In that case seek advice from a counsellor.
2007-10-25 02:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋