It was a horrific event in my life, I would like to find a way to celebrate his life however I am still crushed by the loss. Maybe if I ask others to pray for him and our family, his name was Matthew, I will begin to heal. Life is way more painful than I expected.
2007-10-25 01:34:57 · 33 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear Lord,
I lift up all my difficulties in life to you. May you grant Matthew peace, comfort and shower him with your everlasting love. May you also pray that his parents will get over with his death and let them know that he is enjoying his next life in the gates of heaven, which would not be opened because of you. You are our role model, we hope to follow your footsteps. Grant us that we will be able to help one another so that we can be a better person. This I ask in your most holy name.
Amen.
God bless(:
2007-10-25 01:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss..truly. One thing you can do to start the healing, is to talk about him with anyone that will listen.. Talk about him until you feel good again.. Keeping this bottled up inside will only do just that. It is even easier to do with strangers than it is with family. Have you thought about starting a blog dedicated to him.. You could take a little time out each day and relate a happy rememberance of him.. I really think it would help you feel better. I can help you get started if you like, and it is free. If you want to do this and you feel you can do it on your own, then go to www.wordpress.com, and start a blog.. I think you will amazed at just how theraputic it can be.. you can even post a different pic everyday.. Doesn't that sound nice? If you need help, let me know, I would be happy to help.
2007-10-29 01:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by oneblondepilgrim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in prayer you know that the instant he passed he was in a better place. I will pray for you right now. Moving on does not mean you need to forget Matthew. You must move on you owe it to Matthew to not waste your time living in pain. Notice how a bruised flower gives off a stronger fragrance.... use this experience to make your space a better place.
2007-10-25 08:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by SiFu frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am so sorry for your loss I will pray for your son and family. Maybe you should try to celebrate his life today by doing something he loved, maybe it will help you feel better. Take care.
2007-10-25 02:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by julie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My prayers are with you and your family.
I want you to know that feeling deep grief after two years is not uncommon and nothing you should be ashamed about. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time.
I help facilitate a grief support group at my church and have helped people who are stuck in their grief after 5 years. It happens when we don't griev properly. Please take a few minutes and go to "griefshare.org". There are many support groups running all over the country and one may be near you.
I have seen how talking about what you are going through has helped so many to regain the courage to move through their grief instead of trying to go around it.
I wish you peace.
2007-10-25 01:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have our prayers and condolences. One way that you can celebrate his life and make it easier is to establish a memorial for him at inmemoryof. I will give you a link to the memorial of a friend who died of cancer after a battle of several years and you can see what can be set up as a memorial. It is a good place for you to honor him and other family members or friends can light candles or leave comments as well.
2007-10-25 04:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss of your loving child. As painful as you expected, Do you mind I am going to tell you a story? ------ As the entrance of the heavely door, a young child is sitting outside and holding a candle light, very sad. One day, an elder man passing by and asks him, why you not go inside the heaven door. The boy said, everytime I want to go inside, my parents tears fall on the the candle light and I afraid if I go inside I cannot find my way. Might god bless you.
2007-10-25 01:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother just passed away 1.5 years ago. It is horrible event for a family to go through. Remember that your son is in heaven. You are the one going through the pain not him. That gives me comfort to know that my brother is not in pain.
I will be praying for you today!
2007-10-25 02:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss and will pray for your son and light a candle. Try and remember the happy times get the photos out and talk about the funny things he did. he is in a better place and you will be reunited one day.
2007-10-25 01:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by cottontail 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pray for you and the loss of your son, I am sorry for all of the pain that you have suffered. Peace be with you!
2007-10-25 02:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋