I'm a teen, age 17+. Sometimes I have auto sex. Now I'm fed up with it. Now I have a desire
to have sex with a girl. My friends have told me that if I used a condom each time that
would be safe. It shows that there is nothing wrong having sex with many girls. But the
thing is I'm afraid in actually not to have sex but what do you think of the diseases?
such as AIDS. If you have had sex with many girls or may be boys are you sure about your
health. Are you confident that you didn't get any diseases? Is that really safe to use
condoms when having sex? If your answer is Yes, does it hints that is is OK to have sex with
girls without limiting for a one partner?
Can we get diseses when we ejaculate? Is it safe/ok to ejaculate? I love very much to do
that but I haven't dont it yet.
Thank you.
2007-10-25 00:26:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well YES! limit it to the one you will marry.
AND ONLY HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 01:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Catholic 14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because there is a product that enables people to have many partners, it doesn't make it right. Generally one partner is better than multiple partners. And condoms are usually pretty good at protecting from stds, excluding herpes, genital warts and lice, if they are used properly. The main reason for condoms breaking is because they are not put on correctly.
When you are sexually active you need to have regular std checks if you are having unprotected sex. Especially if you multiple partners. But then, having unsafe sex with a lot of women is pretty much a death wish anyway. Not to mention irresponsible. There is more to think of than just diseases. Unplanned pregnancy is also a major risk.
It is perfectly safe and ok to ejaculate. In fact, if men didn't, it would mean the end of the human race.
2007-10-25 00:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sammy you need to contextualise what it is you are asking. If you approach women as though they are just a vehicle through which you can ejaculate and save batteries you might wait a long time between experiences. Sex is fine as long as the partners consent and it is informed. Really if you are thinking about launching a sortie (!) on the available females and you don't fully understand what the risks or opportunities are ... then you better find out. There are stacks of websites you can look at and all that. Just a word though if I may? A relationship with a woman or man if that is your preference involves more than sex. So while preparing for the lists of contagions you might get through intercourse, spare a thought for the rest of it as well, yeah?
2007-10-25 00:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well just becuase you ejaculate dosnt mean you cant get a STD. wearing a condom dosnt protect you 100% either. If you are sexually active you should be going for regular physicals (every 6 months) especially since you have multiple partners not only for your sake, but for the others sakes too. If you are scared to catch a std, which you should be, then you shouldnt be having sex right now, and you shouldnt be having it with multiple people/ (you are increasing your chances). Wear protection regardless, but maybe sustain from multiples.
2007-10-25 01:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go over board on sexual partners no random girls find a relationship and when it is the right time to have sex then do it, but yes condom every time be safe!!
2007-10-25 00:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the safest thing to do is having sex with only 1 partner even if one usses a condom it's not 100% that it is proper so just use ur head and stick to 1 partner if u dont want STDs
2007-10-25 01:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by ^addy92^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom everytime to prevent disease and to help prevent pregnancy. And try to limit it 2 one partner. U dont wanna get/give diseases or end up on Maury for paternity testing.
2007-10-25 00:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever you had sex with random people there's always a chance of getting a disease + pregnancy with girls..if you're 17+ then why do you want to go around with a bunch of different girls? you just want the benefits without the commitment of a relationship??if you're ejaculat ing when with a girl, even if you're using a condom, you have to be ready for the risk of her getting pregnant.. it can still happen, and its usually when you DONT want it to happen, is when it will.
2007-10-25 05:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to just find a girlfriend and just have sex with only her. dont keep having sex with too many randon girls, even if you are using condons. they could rip and a drop of sperm can leak in them. you're still takin a risky chance at gettin a disease whenyou're having sex with too many people. there's still things like pubic lice that can be spreaded even with condoms.
2007-10-25 01:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by I LUV MY POOCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are still too young to have sex, when you are actually ready and have a willing partner, you will be surprised how easy it is to use a condom
2007-10-25 00:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
condoms don't protect against disease. only pregnancy (and they're not too great at that either--only about 70%). Yes, you are far more likely to get an STD if you have sex with lots of girls. More importantly, you can pass a disease on to every girl you have sex with once you get it.
2007-10-25 00:31:58 · answer #11 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋