would you cheat to get back at them?
2007-10-24 23:50:51 · 18 answers · asked by bovinotarian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way, that makes you just as bad as them.
2007-10-25 00:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it won't make you happy. In a situation where something's happened to make you unhappy, you need to do whatever would make you most happy, whether that's resolving things with your spouse, or leaving and looking for a new relationship.
If you cheat to get back at your spouse, you could end up feeling a bit soiled by the whole thing and if you did it without using protection, there could be other consequences...
2007-10-25 06:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Blink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse cheats on you, it's obviously there is a problem in the relationship or your spouse is battle with his/her own demons. I think before you do anything drastic you should get some professional counseling first, to see what is the roots of the problem.
2007-10-25 06:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by kareg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly not.
two wrongs make a right and i dont want to make it right if she cheated on me in the first place. how bout instead i divorce you and just go find someone else that way your the bad person and im still the good person.
2007-10-25 07:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by monizk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wouldn't change the fact that my husband was unfaithful. Why stoop to that level? I honor my wedding vows.
Best way to get back at him would be to kick his a$$ to the curb on go on to have a happy life without him.
2007-10-25 07:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm not saying some kind of revenge didn't cross my mind, but I would never stoop to cheapening myself. I have more self respect than that.
2007-10-25 07:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.Be a better person and don't belittle yourself to go to that level.It won't make you just as right but only just as wrong.Venges is not the way to go.Be better than that.Are you a better person?
2007-10-25 06:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheatin back would not solve the problem. You should try and know the reason why he/she cheated on u in the first place and then from watever answer they give, u would know the situation of things. and also know wat to do next
2007-10-25 07:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by MAMATEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would cheat for fun!
2007-10-25 07:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly...if they cheat, they have left already (physically and emotionally), so there is actually no cheating back, i would consider myself single.
2007-10-25 08:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋