i was a single mother when i met my husband, my son was 4 yrs.old that time. my husband take care bothof us and then have 2 more kids. my son knew abt. this but my daughthers don't, i know the time will come and this will be brought out how could i explain it to them?
2007-10-24 23:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by judith k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The lesson your daughters will hear from you is that they are very lucky to have a father, mother, big brother and each other. There is no hurry to tell them all the family history. They will understand and appreciate it when they are teenagers.
2007-10-24 23:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by SpaceCoaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If and when the time comes which no doubt it will, you could always explain that,
well the birds and bees story first, and that you were pollenated by a different bee before you met their daddy,
So the older one has a different father but you all have the same daddy.
Anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy
2007-10-24 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. you could for example, tell them stories before they go to sleep about a princess and a prince etc like all those stories, and just add while you're saying it, these sisters had the same mummy but different daddies, just like you and (insert name here). and even if they do not really understand it. if they know it now they will get used to it and will realise some time soon before they reach that age where if they find out they get shocked.
2007-10-24 23:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grammar is atrocious. College was apparently money wasted. Of course...judging by what you've said here its obvious securing an education wasn't first and foremost on your mind.
2007-10-25 01:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just did this with my kids. i have 2 kids and 2 different dads. i sat them down, and told them the truth. they will have a lot of questions, so be prepared with answers. tell them at home so if they want to cry they can. make sure you tell them you love them over and over again. expalin to them that it is not their fault.
2007-10-25 00:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by xayizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until they will grow up and they will be able to understand you better otherwise I think if you tell them now this will affect their childhood
anyway try to talk to them and softly inspire for them the real fact
2007-10-24 23:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is always good to be a faithful wife, and it would'nt hurt to tell him cause your husband could get hurt if you don't tell him so tell him. if he loves you enough then he would'nt really care, that would be true love there.
2007-10-24 23:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by a francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SUGGEST THAT YOU TELL THEM WHILE THEY ARE YOUNG.. YOU NEVER KNOW HOW IT WILL AFFECT THEM AS THEY GET OLDER.. TRUST ME BEEN THERE WITH MY OLDEST BROTHER. AND IT WASN'T MY MOM WHO TOLD ME AND IT HURT ME THAT SHE DIDN'T, SOMEONE ELSE DID...
2007-10-25 01:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋