Its been 2 years since ttc, same disappointing story every month, am beginning to think its just not worth so much of pain, maybe I shud just give up...
On top of all this there are people who taunt and ask stupid question as to why I cant have a baby...I mean I know they shud just go to hell, but it hurts at times.
Sorry for being such a grump, but one of those days when u feel like nothing is worth it !
2007-10-24 22:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by rashers 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Never give up, then the devil would win the battle, put it all in God's hand and have faith, there is hope, don't worry about wha people say, I myself ttc#1 for 4 years next month would be 5, I wanted to give up, but I relize that there is hope out there, there are alot of fertility meds and help out there, have you been to the gyno to find out why you are not concieving, sometimes it can be a little problem tha easily can be fix. Everyone ask me each and every day why are you pregnant yet, but I lie and say we'll am just not ready yet, everyone around me is pregnant I have 2 lil cousin (17,16) 3 friends (1 of which is going on baby #2), and 5 friends who already, conceive. And yes some of these people aren't fiancailly set but they are conceiving, try not to give up, there is hope
Baby dust to you
2007-10-25 01:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a baby do not give up. My bff tried for 3 years had 8 miscarriages and now has a healthy 2 year old. Sometimes all it takes is for you to stop trying...meaning just relax and enjoy the time with your spouse. My friend got pregnant when she stopped stressing about it. It sounds simplistic and maybe it is, but it worked for her. Why not give it a shot?
Baby Dust
2007-10-25 12:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more u want the result to be positive the more stress u are putting on your body, dont give up on ttc, but let it take a back seat, enjoy your sex life and put it to the back of your mind, i wanted a baby for so long without any success at all, then as i gave up and decided to concentrate decorating my home, i fell pregnant with my little girl..
u could also go to the doctors there might me a problem that can be recognised and sorted out for u or at least let u no what is going on
2007-10-25 06:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and get some good rest. You'll be fine. Maybe taking it easy for a while could help you conceiving, as I know some of my friends who took a little break for trying, then they got pregnant when they were not trying! Be positive and good luck to you.
2007-10-25 06:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Save me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give up if that's what you really want. Maybe you should just try different ways to have a baby (if you can afford it). And if that still doesn't help you then adoption is a wonderful way to have the baby you've always wanted.
2007-10-25 05:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Christina A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh i know its difficult to stay hopeful and optimistic but you must!! your lucky month will come, try to relax as tension and stress can halt the process... take a break from trying, relax, think about other things, eat well & pamper yourself! your lucky month will come, many women try for years and have a beautiful baby thats worth all the disappointments along the way... Good Luck x
2007-10-25 05:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up when God is ready you will have a precious little baby! Baby Dust Your Way!!
2007-10-25 08:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by bowman_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. What methods have you been using to try and conceive? are you tracking your cycle?
2007-10-25 05:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Canberra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋