if you are please get out my oldest daughter was killed almost 2 years ago by her boyfriend. she told us all they did was argue.(Monday) 2 days before he shot her they were in a big argument I went to pick her up and she decided to stay. He was supposed to move out. Wednesday I stopped by to see her and give her a new coat we had bought her for Christmas. It was getting cold and I had the strongest urge to give it to her that day. she was happy with her gift and said things were fine. this was around 4:45pm on Wednesday. Thursday morning we get a call from our son. The detectives were at our old house with the news. He had shot her at around 12:30 am. you never ever know where violence will lead. there are shelters these days for women in most cities. If you need info e-mail me please
2007-10-24 22:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by shadowkat6927 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
omg, I'm sooo sorry for you're loss. the hardest is to lose a child! i also was, years ago. i was smart AND lucky, i did get out. my daughters have been in the same boat. one is now, and the man is really and truly a nut case, i have pleaded, warned, and cried, she thinks the same thing, that all will be ok. I know in my heart ,,, like you did, that it will not be! I don't knw what else to do, except pray! GOD BLESS YOU! you are in my prayers. and i feel you're pain.
2007-10-24 22:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was abused for 5 years even after I had brain surgery and a stroke. He hit, shoved, kicked, bit and spat on me. He would also call me everything he could to put me down and make me feel subhuman. He was very controling as well. I lived in hell. Everything came to a head a year ago when he beat my outside of my house while we were separated. My 15 year old daughter called the police and he was arrested immediately. He was given a DVO and ordered to stay away from me and anyone else in my family. He filed for divorce and now I am remarried and happier then I have ever been. If my daughter had not called the police and stopped this cycle once and for all I am not sure that I would have ended it and I probably would have ended up dead. I think intervention is a beautiful thing. The victim has to press the charges though... At my lowest, I was seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist to help me through all of it. I did feel like life was not worth living at times. It is a vicious cycle. I hope that your friend gets some help and support from her friends and family. It is a good thing that someone knows what is going on other then her. I like other women kept it hidden. There are a ton of services out there for women who are abused and I would encourage you to get her some information on them, it is a scary thing for a woman to go through, especially alone. A very tough cycle to break.
2016-05-25 18:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by aline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your daughter's loss. She sounds like a girl who was determined to make things right, she sounds like a beautiful girl.
Yes. My dad is abusive. I have a tough childhood. I just have to hold on though. I try to never lose hope although I fall down sometimes and people have to drag me up, to encourage me to be strong and just keep going..
2007-10-24 22:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOST,I been awere shelters amonth for my 9 years married,it is soo hard,I am try to good now, my son is 8 years old,if you are the another country person so difficult,I will gointo divorse,no one need abuse,sad,
2007-10-24 22:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by muti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I was in an abusive marriage and after several attempts I got out and stayed out. I guess I was one of the lucky ones. I went to our public shelter for women too and that helped me tremedously. I became an advocate for abused women and gave talks to groups of women that needed out of their abusive relationships..........Bless you.....
2007-10-24 22:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by missellie 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Once in an abusive relationship you never really get out. It stays with you. It affected my son, who is now grown and wish I'd had the strength to do it earlier.
( He later commited suicide)
2007-10-25 04:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by PATRICIA MS 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im very sorry 4 ur pain! yes i have been n a domestic violence relationship, its more pain than i could ever describe! no one deserves it!
2007-10-24 22:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss!! I feel ike crying to know that your daughter was killed!! I know people who have been but are not anymore(Thank God). I am sincerely sorry!!!:)
2007-10-24 22:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes right now
2007-10-24 22:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie29 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Bless you x
2007-10-24 23:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋